Ugh. Ew. My co-workers are all Cancers. Great. And that cute guy I met last night? He was a Pisces. Blech. Turns out my boss is a Taurus. God help me. Not even my cat is a good match...damn Capricorn.
My love life, career, and entire future are compromised of all the WRONG signs for me. How can this make me lucky?!
Does this sound like you? Do you know that, in general, you are surrounded by people whom you know aren't good astro matches for you? For example, even if you can't remember their exact sign, you know there are cerca 4 Scorpios, 3 Capricorns and a sprinkling of Cancers in your life, all of which don't bode well for your Libra self. Or that all your co-workers are born in the same month, and you are pretty sure it is the WRONG half of the month, astrologically speaking, for your compatibility with them?
Well, this is certainly a common "problem" to have. And by a certain age in our lives, if we DO track peoples' signs, we begin to spot out the "troublemakers" in our lives. I can't tell you how often people say to me (whilst having a convo about signs) "Ugh, I HATE Virgo's, they make me mad and frustrated; I need a Sag in my life." OK, sorry Virgo's, they don't only say that about you! But I was using you as an example. I will try for a nicer one next time so you don't spend the rest of the time reading this post wondering "Why does she hate me?" and start compiling a list of possible reasons as to why I could (in bullet point format). Don't bother. Go back to bed and take a nap...if you aren't still IN bed.
See? Even I just made a huge generalization of all the Virgo's I know. And if someone were to ask me "Who would you date sign-wise?", while I don't like to discriminate, I would probably be quick to list off certain signs on my "sh*t list" dating-wise.
But is that fair of me?
Are we too quick to judge harshly based on someone's sign, thereby not even giving them a chance? Do we like someone because they are a certain sign and therefore disregard (sometimes blatantly) all the main issues they have?
I think I have mentioned before how important it is to "date out of your astro box." Just because you are a Scorpio doesn't mean you should never ever date an Aquarius, a Sagittarius or another Scorpio. Seriously. Try them all out and see how they fit-- after all, it could be an easy trial run, you may cry "uncle" by the second date anyways! After a while you will start to notice your own compatibility with each sign. You will begin to notice "Hmmm, Sag's make me irrationally frustrated and I never know where I stand with them; while they are fun, I can't take them seriously in a relationship." Or, "You know, I LOVE Aquarians; I always date them and I think I will end up marrying one."
Now, be careful not to fall into the trap of "I ONLY will end up with an Aquarius, so if I meet a Libra, well, they are sh*t out of luck." Another sign may come along and surprise you.
A sign doesn't always have to be a sign!!! AKA, just because someone is a certain sign doesn't mean it is a sign that you should/should not give them a chance.
Don't auto-assume a person is a certain way just because they are a certain sign (don't forget, there are 11 other planets in their charts that they are dealing with!). And don't disregard a certain sign because you didn't like the last Cancer in your life. OK, note to self: if EVERY Cancer you know has screwed you over, then maybe you should steer clear of them, OK? Let them crawl into the sand and suffocate on their own. You keep on moving. Same goes if you tend to only date Sag's and realize that you never get far with them in terms of commitment. Maybe you should walk away from Sag's for a while? After all, when a Sag wants you, they will certainly chase after you and not give up.
I think the key is to not let predominate traits or stereotypes control our thinking. What am I talking about? OK, here is a cheat sheet:
Capricorn: they aren't always so serious and money-driven. Cap's love to be artistic and out-going and put flair into their lives (either through fashion, food, or travel). They can just as easily enjoy a super pricey meal at the best restaurant in town as much as they will enjoy a BBQ with close friends and family in their own backyard.
Aquarius: they aren't always so crazy. They love the security and comforts of their own home and can be quite happy to spend a night in with a glass of wine and talking all night with their best friend, lover, parent, pet, etc. Heck, sometimes they just enjoy talking to themselves! And if chattering isn't on their mood for the night, they will most likely occupy themselves with the latest book on the best-sellers list (most likely an inspirational true story or something about politics/human rights...if they aren't feeling intellectual that evening, they will be reading Vogue about fashion trends).
Pisces: they aren't always so soulful and withdrawn. Pisces love to go out and try new things and can be quite self-absorbed and temper-driven. They hate being wrong and are the first to tell you they don't like something (or passively aggressively tell you they don't like something, thereby "manipulating" you into doing exactly what they want you to do). Very very smart, and somewhat sly, for a sign that is supposed to be "so pure." You may wonder why this sounds mean when I am trying to sound positive. But this IS positive. Pisces get painted too often with the "do-gooder" brush. It's refreshing to know those little angels can be quite devilish and devious sh*ts.
Aries: they aren't always so materialistic. Aries love to be around their family and friends, and that doesn't mean it has to be in a posh club, restaurant or bar. Sure, they like knowing they CAN go to those places, but as long as they are in the company of those they love, they feel pretty damn good and may leave their wallet at home and just enjoy the simple pleasures in life.
Taurus: they aren't always so stubborn...well, most of the time. Taureans love harmony and peace and don't like fights because it disrupts their sense of harmony. So, you may find them conceding to group consensus rather than fighting for their way all the time. This doesn't happen often...and when it does, they pout about not getting their way so that you feel guilty. So take advantage of the rare times they digress from a fight and treat it as a gift from God.
Gemini: they aren't always so flighty and talkative. Gemini's are very independent and thrive on the necessity of being alone when doing things. They can entertain themselves quite well and often enjoy not having to spend the mental energy to entertain someone else. And, surprisingly, they are all great listeners. Being the Kings and Queens of Communication doesn't mean just talking. Communicating is also about listening. So grab your Gem and talk their ear off. They love it. Just be prepared for a long response from them in which they have thoroughly analyzed everything you just said.
Cancer: they aren't always so emotional and hermit-like. When they feel feisty, this sign LOVES to go out and party and be the center of attention. Sure, they may regret it the next day, so take advantage of those nights they want to party. It's a treat! And despite their being so emotional about SO many different things, this sign can also be inordinately aloof about other things or withdrawn from showing any emotion. It's all very very suspicious.
Leo: they aren't always so vain and proud. If you have earned the loyalty, love and/or friendship of a Leo, they will pretty much walk through a pile of garbage (without shoes!) if you needed them too. OK, who am I kidding? Leo's are always vain and proud. But they will be willing to push that aside if you need them to be there for you. Just remember they will want you to return the favor. Possibly by stroking their ego many many times over telling them how wonderful they are.
Virgo: they aren't always so damn analytical and critical. It's true. Sometimes this sign can turn off their highly charged mind and just LET GO. They can be quite masterful at it when they do...they can indulge in the longest naps EVER, laugh (and they always have great laughs), relax all day on the beach, or plan a vacation. It's a beautiful, lighter side of them. It doesn't last long (because, no matter what they do, even if it is grabbing a drink at Starbucks, they are always analyzing at SOME level...soy or skim milk? which is better according to the latest health reports? is this healthy for me? whatever, I just ran a few miles. Maybe I should run some more. I guess I will go with 2% milk.) And so on...
Libra: they aren't always so balanced. In fact, they almost always aren't. They are quite neurotic and are always operating on a high level of action. So don't idealize their deceptive cool manner. Inside, they are going crazy. And it's fun to know what they are thinking! They have quite devilish minds and are full of opinions...some being sassier than others.
Scorpio: they aren't always so dark and depressed. This month at least. Scorpio's can be wonderfully charming and witty and outgoing, sometimes confusing us at first with their neighboring sign, Sagittarius. You can look at your Scorpio and think "Wow, nothing phases this sign out. They are so calm." But, as with a cat that slowly starts to move its' tail when it gets annoyed to alert you that they are NOT happy with you, keep in mind that Scorpio's behave quite similar...but unlike a cat's tail, theirs is a nasty stinger.
Sagittarius: they aren't always so commitment phobic and aloof. Sag's will be the first to come to your aid, give you the shirt off their back, help you out with whatever you need. It's true! They love to pamper and take care of those they love...it makes them feel needed and loved, which is something they secretly fear they will never have or find. Sag's are great friends and can make great life partners. If you have a cold, they will be the first to go buy you medicine and get you food from your favorite restaurant. Just give them space to then go and do their own thing while you recover. They don't want to catch your cold! That would mean having to stay IN. Gasp!
So, those are some brief stereotypes and ways to look around them. Above all, keep an open mind. Don't let a person's sign make you jump to conclusions...at least, not just yet.
Next Up: It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas...perfect gifts for your signs.
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The PISCES 4-1-1
Element: Water
Ruling Planet: Neptune, Jupiter
Quality: Mutable
Nature: Negative, Feminine
Symbol: Fish
Health Alert: Pisces rule the feet and its structural bones and toes. They must be careful with sprains, stubbed toes, ankle issues, bunions, or broken bones. Since many Pisces are avid runners, dancers or sports-enthusiasts, they need to learn to guard their feet to avoid permanent damage or invasive surgery. Internally, Pisces rule the lymphatic system. They must take caution when it comes to internal inflammation, gland functions in general, and problems with drugs. Allergic reactions to drugs, and a susceptibility to addictions, can become a serious issue for Pisces, who use drugs and alcohol to escape reality or numb themselves from their intense emotions. These said emotions can cause Pisces to struggle with depression and psychosomatic illnesses more often than not. Most of their health issues stem from emotional distress, and as such, they tend to have a weak immune system to fight off colds, flu, sinus infections, or other illnesses. Therapeutic ways of avoiding addictive tendencies and reducing stress on the body would be yoga or Pilates, which most Pisces love because it helps them to feel spiritually aligned as well. Last but not least, Pisces tend to indulge in expensive tastes when it comes to rich foods. They should be wary of excessive drinking and eating, especially late night. Their bodies have a delicate system and their metabolism is a bit weaker than most.
Where to Find a Pisces: performing on-stage, whether it be a dance production, musical collaboration, or play. They are heavily involved in the arts, so when they aren’t on stage, they can likely be found working late hours in an art or dance studio, reading in a bookstore, rehearsing their lines with a cast mate, cooking in a restaurant, or attending a lecture on religion or philosophy. You may also find a lot of Pisces working in marketing or graphic design firms, as they get to apply their artistic skills in a corporate environment. You can also find them near water (ocean, lake, etc) meditating or just watching the scenery while writing down their latest poem or chapter in their novel. Most Pisceans are involved in charity work and the Church, so an easy target would be to go to a worship service or sign up for volunteer work in your area (animal shelters, soup kitchens, mentoring programs, campaign fundraising, etc). New Age workshops, readings, or events is a prime target for the typical Pisces, who is very in-tune with alternative lifestyles. This said lifestyle leads them to organic food markets and grocery stores, too. If all else fails, you are guaranteed to find a Pisces in a yoga or Pilates studio (and probably, they are teaching the class!).
How to Spot a Pisces: they are fairly easy to spot because they tend to stand out like a sore thumb in a crowd. Many of them have light eyes that are soft and soulful, which they use to analyze the environment around them. They won’t be the loud person in the room always talking. In fact, they will be the quiet one you have to draw out of their shell. Once they are drawn out, they can be quite witty and charming, surprising most people. A hearty laugh that throws their head back, and frequent movements of their head is also a noticeable trait (that “huh? me?” what?” movement). It’s almost as if they look like someone has splashed water on their face. Their faces, and facial movements, are quite expressive when they become animated—otherwise, they can look like a deer in headlights most of the time. They may wave their arms around when they talk as well, almost as if they are dancing or giving a grand speech in their head at the same time that they are sitting down and talking to you about their day. The women are drawn to floral prints and very feminine pieces (sheer fabrics, summer dresses, scarves, subdued prints, etc) that allow them to move easily and comfortably. The less glamorous Pisces woman will wear jeans and a fleece jacket or t-shirt all the time (and some kind of creative addition, like a scarf around their head, a cool/different piece of jewelry, or a fun headband) or have a more hippy look (flowing printed dresses an earth tones), and the more glamorous will have no problem decking herself out in jewels, a fur coat, and a plunging neckline showing her curvy figure (think of Elizabeth Taylor when she was young). She uses her clothes to define herself as either a sexy siren or a natural beauty. The men love wearing blues and greens, and will often be in khakis or some other relaxed-wear. In business, they are always in sharp suits and have impeccable taste. They like to look good—it helps them charm the women more so that they can get what they want!
How to Attract a Pisces: have a kind heart, an interest in the arts and in their passion for the arts, and be attractive. Pisces are very visual and don’t like things that look messy or in disarray—it throws them off balance. If you are a good soul, with a strong will, they will fall madly in love with you. Typically, a Pisces is first attracted sexually, but will wait to get to know you better before really falling in love (Do you have the same interests? Are you spiritual? Do you respect yourself? Are you a family person?). Ironically, even though Pisces are attracted to pretty people, they are turned off by materialistic ones. A Pisces man loves an attractive, feminine woman, but if she spends too much money on shoes, bags, or clothes, or expects that he spends his money on her, he is quickly turned off. He will view her motives as selfish, materialistic, and greedy. A Pisces woman is always looking for a man who is put together and successful. She needs to feel secure and taken care of, and a well dressed man with a good bank account is definitely the route to her heart, even if he can be slightly selfish or self-involved, she falls for his charms. The general rule of thumb, however, is just to be a good, nice person—someone that a Pisces considers to be honest, virtuous, and loyal. A wicked sense of humor will also help you. Many Pisces are in the entertainment industry, notably as comedians or actors, and love making people laugh. You should take to heart that Pisces have very volatile emotions, as well. This means they can be obsessed with you one moment, and disinterested in the next. Be willing to ride their emotional waves (and sometimes, tsunamis) if you want to spend a lifetime together.
How to Lose a Pisces: being more emotionally erratic than they are, loud, or pretentious, is a great way to get rid of your Pisces. They may hang in there for a while because they dig a little bit of the crazy (they are crazy too, after all), but they will quickly swim upstream after a short while. They loathe nasty behavior, ugly people, negative personalities, and irresponsible partners. Female Pisces are looking for a strong, alpha male to protect them; male Pisces are looking for a feminine, faithful and kind-hearted alpha female to nourish them. It’s really that simple. So, if you don’t fall within the lines, you simply don’t matter to a Pisces.
Ruling Planet: Neptune, Jupiter
Quality: Mutable
Nature: Negative, Feminine
Symbol: Fish
Health Alert: Pisces rule the feet and its structural bones and toes. They must be careful with sprains, stubbed toes, ankle issues, bunions, or broken bones. Since many Pisces are avid runners, dancers or sports-enthusiasts, they need to learn to guard their feet to avoid permanent damage or invasive surgery. Internally, Pisces rule the lymphatic system. They must take caution when it comes to internal inflammation, gland functions in general, and problems with drugs. Allergic reactions to drugs, and a susceptibility to addictions, can become a serious issue for Pisces, who use drugs and alcohol to escape reality or numb themselves from their intense emotions. These said emotions can cause Pisces to struggle with depression and psychosomatic illnesses more often than not. Most of their health issues stem from emotional distress, and as such, they tend to have a weak immune system to fight off colds, flu, sinus infections, or other illnesses. Therapeutic ways of avoiding addictive tendencies and reducing stress on the body would be yoga or Pilates, which most Pisces love because it helps them to feel spiritually aligned as well. Last but not least, Pisces tend to indulge in expensive tastes when it comes to rich foods. They should be wary of excessive drinking and eating, especially late night. Their bodies have a delicate system and their metabolism is a bit weaker than most.
Where to Find a Pisces: performing on-stage, whether it be a dance production, musical collaboration, or play. They are heavily involved in the arts, so when they aren’t on stage, they can likely be found working late hours in an art or dance studio, reading in a bookstore, rehearsing their lines with a cast mate, cooking in a restaurant, or attending a lecture on religion or philosophy. You may also find a lot of Pisces working in marketing or graphic design firms, as they get to apply their artistic skills in a corporate environment. You can also find them near water (ocean, lake, etc) meditating or just watching the scenery while writing down their latest poem or chapter in their novel. Most Pisceans are involved in charity work and the Church, so an easy target would be to go to a worship service or sign up for volunteer work in your area (animal shelters, soup kitchens, mentoring programs, campaign fundraising, etc). New Age workshops, readings, or events is a prime target for the typical Pisces, who is very in-tune with alternative lifestyles. This said lifestyle leads them to organic food markets and grocery stores, too. If all else fails, you are guaranteed to find a Pisces in a yoga or Pilates studio (and probably, they are teaching the class!).
How to Spot a Pisces: they are fairly easy to spot because they tend to stand out like a sore thumb in a crowd. Many of them have light eyes that are soft and soulful, which they use to analyze the environment around them. They won’t be the loud person in the room always talking. In fact, they will be the quiet one you have to draw out of their shell. Once they are drawn out, they can be quite witty and charming, surprising most people. A hearty laugh that throws their head back, and frequent movements of their head is also a noticeable trait (that “huh? me?” what?” movement). It’s almost as if they look like someone has splashed water on their face. Their faces, and facial movements, are quite expressive when they become animated—otherwise, they can look like a deer in headlights most of the time. They may wave their arms around when they talk as well, almost as if they are dancing or giving a grand speech in their head at the same time that they are sitting down and talking to you about their day. The women are drawn to floral prints and very feminine pieces (sheer fabrics, summer dresses, scarves, subdued prints, etc) that allow them to move easily and comfortably. The less glamorous Pisces woman will wear jeans and a fleece jacket or t-shirt all the time (and some kind of creative addition, like a scarf around their head, a cool/different piece of jewelry, or a fun headband) or have a more hippy look (flowing printed dresses an earth tones), and the more glamorous will have no problem decking herself out in jewels, a fur coat, and a plunging neckline showing her curvy figure (think of Elizabeth Taylor when she was young). She uses her clothes to define herself as either a sexy siren or a natural beauty. The men love wearing blues and greens, and will often be in khakis or some other relaxed-wear. In business, they are always in sharp suits and have impeccable taste. They like to look good—it helps them charm the women more so that they can get what they want!
How to Attract a Pisces: have a kind heart, an interest in the arts and in their passion for the arts, and be attractive. Pisces are very visual and don’t like things that look messy or in disarray—it throws them off balance. If you are a good soul, with a strong will, they will fall madly in love with you. Typically, a Pisces is first attracted sexually, but will wait to get to know you better before really falling in love (Do you have the same interests? Are you spiritual? Do you respect yourself? Are you a family person?). Ironically, even though Pisces are attracted to pretty people, they are turned off by materialistic ones. A Pisces man loves an attractive, feminine woman, but if she spends too much money on shoes, bags, or clothes, or expects that he spends his money on her, he is quickly turned off. He will view her motives as selfish, materialistic, and greedy. A Pisces woman is always looking for a man who is put together and successful. She needs to feel secure and taken care of, and a well dressed man with a good bank account is definitely the route to her heart, even if he can be slightly selfish or self-involved, she falls for his charms. The general rule of thumb, however, is just to be a good, nice person—someone that a Pisces considers to be honest, virtuous, and loyal. A wicked sense of humor will also help you. Many Pisces are in the entertainment industry, notably as comedians or actors, and love making people laugh. You should take to heart that Pisces have very volatile emotions, as well. This means they can be obsessed with you one moment, and disinterested in the next. Be willing to ride their emotional waves (and sometimes, tsunamis) if you want to spend a lifetime together.
How to Lose a Pisces: being more emotionally erratic than they are, loud, or pretentious, is a great way to get rid of your Pisces. They may hang in there for a while because they dig a little bit of the crazy (they are crazy too, after all), but they will quickly swim upstream after a short while. They loathe nasty behavior, ugly people, negative personalities, and irresponsible partners. Female Pisces are looking for a strong, alpha male to protect them; male Pisces are looking for a feminine, faithful and kind-hearted alpha female to nourish them. It’s really that simple. So, if you don’t fall within the lines, you simply don’t matter to a Pisces.
FAMOUS PISCES
Clockwise: Javier Bardem, Glenn Close, Daniel Craig, Jessica Biel, Benicio del Toro, Eva Longoria, Justin Bieber, Drew Barrymore, Michael Cain, Rachel Weisz, Steve Jobs, Jennifer Love Hewitt, Billy Crystal, Queen Latifah, Spike Lee, Chelsea Handler, Mitt Romney, Chelsea Clinton, Ralph Nader, Elizabeth Taylor, Albert Einstein, Liza Minnelli, Alan Greenspan, Rue McClanahan, Rob Lowe, Lauren Graham, Bruce Willis, Juliette Binoche, Kurt Russell, Cindy Crawford, Bon Jovi, Vanessa Williams
The PISCES Best & Worst List
Best Qualities: intuitive, nurturing and soulful, Pisces have a way about them that makes people drawn to them. Whether it is because they are mysterious, seem innocent, or make people feel coddled and needed, they are like Mother Nature radiating warmth and harmony. Romantic and charming, Pisces easily find partners in their life to fulfill their needs. Their creativity is limitless, whether they are a male or a female. Male Pisces tend to focus more on cooking or music, and are therefore often found running a kitchen or writing their own music and/or playing an instrument of their choice. Their girlfriends have swooned over their emotional sensitivity and way with words—especially when they put the words in a romantic poem or song while playing their guitar. Female Pisces are more apt to write (poems, short stories) or be an artist or dancer. They have a strong need to use their sense of touch and their free spirit in their creative endeavors and are not afraid to express themselves through dancing, painting, or singing. Regardless of their sex, Pisces are extremely expressive on paper and often live in a fantasy world. Their artistic inclinations just make them very different from the average Joe (or Jane). Their emotions are so strong and finely tuned that, when they become too overwhelming, they can turn them into something beautiful, if they so desire. Inclined to spirituality and New Age beliefs, Pisces is a sign that is typically psychic and somewhat mystical. As the oldest sign of the Zodiac that is also connected astrologically to Jesus Christ, they have profound wisdom and beliefs in a higher power. Many Pisces are strongly linked to churches and religious leaders, and/or are involved in charitable works, volunteering, holistic healing, or counseling.
Worst Qualities: Pisces live in a fantasy world that makes it seem as if they are oh-so-mysterious (people can’t help but wonder “what ARE they thinking about?”), but the reality is that they are so confused about how they feel that they very rarely can make a decision about which mood they are in or which direction to go. Indecisiveness is a big challenge for Pisces and can sometimes render them immutable and left whining and throwing a tantrum because they simply can’t decide between hot and cold, happy or sad, left or right. As fickle as a child, their decisions and actions are at the beck and call of their mood de jour. Making a commitment to a decision, feeling, or idea can be excruciating for them and they end up delegating the decision to someone else. Pisces say that they hate hurting someone’s feelings, but the truth is that many of them get a sadistic kick out of hurting the ones they love. They can be completely self-absorbed and self-centered, so it is hard for them to strike a fine balance between making a decision that is best for them while still making it seem as if they are putting other people’s feelings into consideration. Violent tempers, mood swings, possessive, and addictive personalities are very common to Pisces. Many are apt to deal with depression, jealousies, and feelings of inadequacy or unexplained sadness. Sometimes living in their own fantasy world with their head in the clouds makes the landing on Earth a crash and burn reality. Pisces need to learn to not transfer their own feelings of unhappiness or inadequacy onto their loved ones, or they may end up terribly alone. Also, when a Pisces has made up their mind, they can be incredibly loyal to that decision, which can be a heavy burden on those who don’t agree.
Best Matches: Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn, Cancer, Scorpio
Taurus thrives in the home and needs to feel protected, secure, and loved. Taurus, after all, is in love with the idea of love—wishing that the world is full of romance and sex. In comes Pisces, who, with a wave of a wand, can make all their dreams seem true. Both signs are also drawn to the intensity of touch and are very ethereal. They aren’t afraid to explore their sexuality together and see what happens in the bedroom. Spiritual conversations, intense emotional bonds, and a sense of comfort comes easily when these two signs are paired together. They will be best friends and lovers, which is, after all, the sweetest thing. Famous Couples: Javier Bardem (Pisces) and Penelope Cruz (Taurus), Cindy Crawford (Pisces) and Randy Gerber (Taurus), Eva Longoria (Pisces) and Tony Parker (Taurus), Liza Minnelli (Pisces) and David Gest (Taurus)
Virgo is Pisces perfect astrological opposite. This is to say that they can either be a great couple, or a horrible one. While Pisces may find making a decision hard, Virgo is more apt to say “this is what you do and how you do it.” And when both are stuck for a decision, the over-analytical Virgo and the dreamlike Pisces can sit together for hours arriving at the best decision and exploring all the pro’s and con’s of the situation. Virgo enjoys Pisces mystical and seemingly innocent (and slightly neurotic) side; Pisces delights in Virgo’s purity and strength. Virgo is always reliable when it comes to Pisces because a Virgo always feels the need to protect or nurture their wounded partner. However, Virgo can easily become annoyed with Pisces’ inconsistencies and inability to make decisions. Pisces can feel over-analyzed and criticized by Virgo. The truth is that both are at fault here by simply being who they are. Famous Couples: Cindy Crawford (Pisces) and Richard Gere (Virgo), Emily Blunt (Pisces) and Michael Buble (Virgo)
Capricorn’s drive, stamina, and discipline provide the backbone that the Pisces has always been searching for. Capricorns know how to get things done and get them done right, especially in business and finance. They seldom question their actions and just go for it, something which a Pisces can’t help but admire. Also, since Pisces tends to spend money a bit more recklessly, they benefit greatly by Capricorn’s shrewd financial planning and investment advice. So what does the Pisces bring to the table? Capricorns tend to be aloof and not evolved emotionally speaking—these goats can be a bit too harsh and cold while climbing to the top of that mountain. That’s where Pisces comes in, softening the rough edges of the Capricorn and calming them down, telling them when they are being inappropriate, mean, or too damn cold-hearted. Famous Couples: Penny Lancaster (Pisces) and Rod Stewart (Capricorn), Christine Baumgartner (Pisces) and Kevin Costner (Capricorn), Pat Nixon (Pisces) and Richard Nixon (Capricorn)
Cancer will feel at home in Pisces deep emotional waters; these two literally are as happy as a crab (Cancer) and a fish (Pisces) swimming together in the vast ocean. They are both emotional, sensitive and moody, and feel as if they have found their perfect soul mate in each other. Whether it is staying at home for a nice evening by candlelight, or reading a book in the corner of the living room while sipping on a nightcap, these two simply enjoy each other’s comforting presence. Cancer is a very witty and driven sign, as is Pisces, and together their conversations will flow smoothly and easily. More importantly, neither sign is afraid to call the other out on their BS, and knows when to leave well enough alone. Their union will be mystical, and their bond intensive and somewhat possessive, but that’s how they both roll when it comes to love. At the very least, both of them will be able to understand each other’s emotional volatility. Famous Couples: Kurt Cobain (Pisces) and Courtney Love (Cancer), Johnny Cash (Pisces) and June Carter Cash (Cancer), Vanessa Williams (Pisces) and Rick Fox (Cancer)
Scorpio’s more intense, sensual qualities invigorate Pisces to feel more sexual and sensual—these two will certainly have a romantically charged relationship where feelings and emotions seem very heightened and magnified. Both are very spiritual signs and will be drawn to an alternative lifestyle together and will judge each other rarely, and love each other permanently. They may not marry, but they will happily spend the rest of their lives together. Intellectual stimulation and friendship rules this couple first and foremost, but a healthy physical attraction is definitely there. They both sense what the other needs (for Scorpio, they need space and freedom, especially from judgment; for Pisces, they need attention, coddling, and adoration). Famous Couples: Kurt Russell (Pisces) and Goldie Hawn (Scorpio), Bruce Willis (Pisces) and Demi Moore (Scorpio), Michael Bolton (Pisces) and Nicollette Sheridan (Scorpio), Tom Arnold (Pisces) and Roseanne (Scorpio), Julia Cameron (Pisces) and Martin Scorsese (Scorpio), Elizabeth Taylor (Pisces) and Richard Burton (Scorpio), Alan Greenspan (Pisces) and Andrea Mitchell (Scorpio)
Worst Matches: Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius, Pisces
Gemini’s mercurial wit and personality certainly charms the Pisces, who is mesmerized by Gemini’s social persona. Both signs are mutable, meaning they are able to adapt to the energy or changes in a room/environment. Their flexibility will be essential in making this pair last. Pisces may want to cling or attach themselves to Gemini’s rollercoaster ride—and it may last for a short while. That is, until the Gemini is tired of being bored by Pisces’ sensitive or possessive nature, desire to stay home, or depressive/quiet moods. The only thing Pisces would love to chat about non-stop is the way they are feeling about a situation, which is probably the quickest way to lose a Gemini who can’t STAND to talk about their feelings all the time and would probably prefer talking to a wall instead. Pisces can be too unreliable and unstable for Gemini, who needs a partner who will ground them and their flighty twins. That being said, if a Gemini has been wounded in love before, and craves a nurturing and committed soul, a Pisces may just fit the bill. Famous Couples: Seal (Pisces/Aquarius cusp) and Heidi Klum (Gemini), Drew Barrymore (Pisces) and Justin Long (Gemini), Ivana Trump (Pisces) and Donald Trump (Gemini), Drew Barrymore (Pisces) and Fabrizio Moretti (Gemini), Callista Gingrich (Pisces) and Newt Gingrich (Gemini)
Sagittarius and Pisces, at some point, will find themselves together. It doesn’t normally last long, and it normally doesn’t end well, but nonetheless, it is a trap they often fall into. Sagittarius falls for Pisces unworldly and imaginative persona. They are so intriguing and ethereal, that the Sagittarius feels challenged to “capture” the Pisces. It is important to note that this pairing is more common when the man is the Sagittarius and the woman is the Pisces. The female Pisces will fall for the charming Sagittarius man who is adventurous, funny and goal-oriented. As she is typically weak on those traits, she feels incredibly drawn to this “foreign” energy and wants to be a part of it for a while. Likewise, the Sagittarius man is humbled by the emotional, sensitive, and creative Pisces woman—she seems so delicate and charming and perfect. That is, until she starts crying because she doesn’t have his attention, or when she complains he doesn’t love her or show his emotions enough. The Sag gets annoyed by the wishy-washy Pisces and her inability to make a decision. Angers flare and the Pisces woman throws a bucket of water over the enraged fiery Sagittarius…and then it is over. Famous Couples: Chris Webber (Pisces) and Tyra Banks (Sag)
Leo is sexual and shows love and emotions easily (and demands a lot of attention), so at the very least, a Pisces and a Leo will not worry about expressing their feelings accordingly. Since Leo likes being in charge and telling others what to do, and Pisces is looking to be told what to do, this pair can actually work. HOWEVER, Leo hates whining and hates being held back by emotionally weakness, such as manipulation, depression, or moodiness. And Pisces do that oh-so-well. As long as Leo can handle Pisces’ emotional persona, and Pisces won’t take Leo’s bossiness as a symbol of domination, they may find love together. At the very least, they will find great sex. Famous Couples: Justin Beiber (Pisces) and Selena Gomez (Leo/Cancer Cusp), Tea Leoni (Pisces) and David Duchovny (Leo), Elizabeth Taylor (Pisces) and Eddie Fisher (Leo), Desi Arnaz (Pisces) and Lucille Ball (Leo), Lauren Graham (Pisces) and Peter Krause (Leo)
Two Pisces together is a disaster. Too many emotions, too little motivation, and far too little direction, leaves these two a complete mess together. Pisces needs a more practical counterpart (or backbone) to make it in this world. Famous Couples: Rachel Weisz and Daniel Craig
Surprisingly Good Matches: Aquarius, Aries, Libra
Aquarius has a natural humanitarian instinct, which appeals to the nurturing Pisces. Yet, these two can have a limited fuse for one another. Aquarius tends to be too unemotional or unstable for the sensitive Pisces. While the Aquarius wants to be out and about, socialize and meet new people, the Pisces hates crowds or social events and prefers to be a loner and either stay at home, or watch and observe the crowd. Pisces do better in a one-on-one capacity with someone they know, and nothing, NOTHING, is as boring to an Aquarian as someone who doesn’t know how to carry a conversation with a complete stranger. Aquarius also tends to be a hard worker and puts in long hours at the office, always focusing on making money or vast improvements in the world. While Pisces respects this, they tend to thrive more on balance. Where they will understand one another is in trying to help mankind improve itself. They may pursue it from different angles (Aquarius thinks big, whereas Pisces thinks on a smaller scale), but pursue it they will. Both signs are incredibly charming, so they can channel their flirtatious personas into a very sexy relationship IF they are willing to understand one another’s differences and realize the treasure they have found in one another. If Aquarius is smart enough to acknowledge how lucky they are to have a soulful Pisces in their life to calm them down, and if Pisces is willing to admit they need Aquarius to motivate them to be the best person they can be, then they wouldn’t be such a bad couple after all. They could be great, in fact. Famous Couples: Jessica Biel (Pisces) and Justin Timberlake (Aquarius), Rachel Weisz (Pisces) and Darren Aronofsky (Aquarius), Elizabeth Taylor (Pisces) and John Warner (Aquarius), Stedman Graham (Pisces) and Oprah Winfrey (Aquarius), Paul Newman (Aquarius) and Joanne Woodward (Pisces)
Aries can be very superficial and needs to be in the spotlight at all times. Since Pisces can be turned off by excessive material wealth, this can be a weird match. BUT, if the man is the Aries in this picture, and the female is a Pisces, then there is some hope. A female Pisces loves being taken care of and loves feeling rich, decked out in jewels, fur coats, and expensive décor. She almost has a childlike delight at feeling like the princess in her own fairytale world. The Aries man thrives in providing her all of these things, especially since she looks so great in them and she is so appreciative of these gifts. He provides her not only with material security, but also a sense of adventure. If she doesn’t get jealous of his flirtatious character, and he doesn’t get bothered by her clingy behavior, they can really work well together. Famous Couples: Freddie Prinze Jr. (Pisces) and Sarah Michelle Gellar (Aries), Mitt Romney (Pisces) and Ann Romney (Aries)
Libra is all about harmony, balance, aesthetic pleasure, and peace. For this reason, Pisces can’t help but feel attracted to the world their charming Libra has created for them. As long as Pisces isn’t bothered by Libra’s social personality and constant over-analyzing, and Pisces doesn’t pull their infamous bouts of rage or temper tantrums, these two can co-exist very happily together. They just need to understand that their temperaments and personalities are different—but not different enough to give them a shot at trying it out. The Libra is a go-getter, planner and motivator. All of which are Pisces’ weakest traits. The Pisces is emotionally thoughtful, purposeful and sensitive, all of which can sometimes be Libra’s weakest traits. This pair can be a ying to the other’s yang if the stars are aligned correctly when they meet. Famous Couples: Chris Martin (Pisces) and Gwyneth Paltrow (Libra), Jon Bon Jovi (Pisces) and Dorothea Hurley (Libra), Dana Reeve (Pisces) and Christopher Reeve (Libra), Joel Madden (Pisces) and Hilary Duff (Libra)
Worst Qualities: Pisces live in a fantasy world that makes it seem as if they are oh-so-mysterious (people can’t help but wonder “what ARE they thinking about?”), but the reality is that they are so confused about how they feel that they very rarely can make a decision about which mood they are in or which direction to go. Indecisiveness is a big challenge for Pisces and can sometimes render them immutable and left whining and throwing a tantrum because they simply can’t decide between hot and cold, happy or sad, left or right. As fickle as a child, their decisions and actions are at the beck and call of their mood de jour. Making a commitment to a decision, feeling, or idea can be excruciating for them and they end up delegating the decision to someone else. Pisces say that they hate hurting someone’s feelings, but the truth is that many of them get a sadistic kick out of hurting the ones they love. They can be completely self-absorbed and self-centered, so it is hard for them to strike a fine balance between making a decision that is best for them while still making it seem as if they are putting other people’s feelings into consideration. Violent tempers, mood swings, possessive, and addictive personalities are very common to Pisces. Many are apt to deal with depression, jealousies, and feelings of inadequacy or unexplained sadness. Sometimes living in their own fantasy world with their head in the clouds makes the landing on Earth a crash and burn reality. Pisces need to learn to not transfer their own feelings of unhappiness or inadequacy onto their loved ones, or they may end up terribly alone. Also, when a Pisces has made up their mind, they can be incredibly loyal to that decision, which can be a heavy burden on those who don’t agree.
Best Matches: Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn, Cancer, Scorpio
Taurus thrives in the home and needs to feel protected, secure, and loved. Taurus, after all, is in love with the idea of love—wishing that the world is full of romance and sex. In comes Pisces, who, with a wave of a wand, can make all their dreams seem true. Both signs are also drawn to the intensity of touch and are very ethereal. They aren’t afraid to explore their sexuality together and see what happens in the bedroom. Spiritual conversations, intense emotional bonds, and a sense of comfort comes easily when these two signs are paired together. They will be best friends and lovers, which is, after all, the sweetest thing. Famous Couples: Javier Bardem (Pisces) and Penelope Cruz (Taurus), Cindy Crawford (Pisces) and Randy Gerber (Taurus), Eva Longoria (Pisces) and Tony Parker (Taurus), Liza Minnelli (Pisces) and David Gest (Taurus)
Virgo is Pisces perfect astrological opposite. This is to say that they can either be a great couple, or a horrible one. While Pisces may find making a decision hard, Virgo is more apt to say “this is what you do and how you do it.” And when both are stuck for a decision, the over-analytical Virgo and the dreamlike Pisces can sit together for hours arriving at the best decision and exploring all the pro’s and con’s of the situation. Virgo enjoys Pisces mystical and seemingly innocent (and slightly neurotic) side; Pisces delights in Virgo’s purity and strength. Virgo is always reliable when it comes to Pisces because a Virgo always feels the need to protect or nurture their wounded partner. However, Virgo can easily become annoyed with Pisces’ inconsistencies and inability to make decisions. Pisces can feel over-analyzed and criticized by Virgo. The truth is that both are at fault here by simply being who they are. Famous Couples: Cindy Crawford (Pisces) and Richard Gere (Virgo), Emily Blunt (Pisces) and Michael Buble (Virgo)
Capricorn’s drive, stamina, and discipline provide the backbone that the Pisces has always been searching for. Capricorns know how to get things done and get them done right, especially in business and finance. They seldom question their actions and just go for it, something which a Pisces can’t help but admire. Also, since Pisces tends to spend money a bit more recklessly, they benefit greatly by Capricorn’s shrewd financial planning and investment advice. So what does the Pisces bring to the table? Capricorns tend to be aloof and not evolved emotionally speaking—these goats can be a bit too harsh and cold while climbing to the top of that mountain. That’s where Pisces comes in, softening the rough edges of the Capricorn and calming them down, telling them when they are being inappropriate, mean, or too damn cold-hearted. Famous Couples: Penny Lancaster (Pisces) and Rod Stewart (Capricorn), Christine Baumgartner (Pisces) and Kevin Costner (Capricorn), Pat Nixon (Pisces) and Richard Nixon (Capricorn)
Cancer will feel at home in Pisces deep emotional waters; these two literally are as happy as a crab (Cancer) and a fish (Pisces) swimming together in the vast ocean. They are both emotional, sensitive and moody, and feel as if they have found their perfect soul mate in each other. Whether it is staying at home for a nice evening by candlelight, or reading a book in the corner of the living room while sipping on a nightcap, these two simply enjoy each other’s comforting presence. Cancer is a very witty and driven sign, as is Pisces, and together their conversations will flow smoothly and easily. More importantly, neither sign is afraid to call the other out on their BS, and knows when to leave well enough alone. Their union will be mystical, and their bond intensive and somewhat possessive, but that’s how they both roll when it comes to love. At the very least, both of them will be able to understand each other’s emotional volatility. Famous Couples: Kurt Cobain (Pisces) and Courtney Love (Cancer), Johnny Cash (Pisces) and June Carter Cash (Cancer), Vanessa Williams (Pisces) and Rick Fox (Cancer)
Scorpio’s more intense, sensual qualities invigorate Pisces to feel more sexual and sensual—these two will certainly have a romantically charged relationship where feelings and emotions seem very heightened and magnified. Both are very spiritual signs and will be drawn to an alternative lifestyle together and will judge each other rarely, and love each other permanently. They may not marry, but they will happily spend the rest of their lives together. Intellectual stimulation and friendship rules this couple first and foremost, but a healthy physical attraction is definitely there. They both sense what the other needs (for Scorpio, they need space and freedom, especially from judgment; for Pisces, they need attention, coddling, and adoration). Famous Couples: Kurt Russell (Pisces) and Goldie Hawn (Scorpio), Bruce Willis (Pisces) and Demi Moore (Scorpio), Michael Bolton (Pisces) and Nicollette Sheridan (Scorpio), Tom Arnold (Pisces) and Roseanne (Scorpio), Julia Cameron (Pisces) and Martin Scorsese (Scorpio), Elizabeth Taylor (Pisces) and Richard Burton (Scorpio), Alan Greenspan (Pisces) and Andrea Mitchell (Scorpio)
Worst Matches: Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius, Pisces
Gemini’s mercurial wit and personality certainly charms the Pisces, who is mesmerized by Gemini’s social persona. Both signs are mutable, meaning they are able to adapt to the energy or changes in a room/environment. Their flexibility will be essential in making this pair last. Pisces may want to cling or attach themselves to Gemini’s rollercoaster ride—and it may last for a short while. That is, until the Gemini is tired of being bored by Pisces’ sensitive or possessive nature, desire to stay home, or depressive/quiet moods. The only thing Pisces would love to chat about non-stop is the way they are feeling about a situation, which is probably the quickest way to lose a Gemini who can’t STAND to talk about their feelings all the time and would probably prefer talking to a wall instead. Pisces can be too unreliable and unstable for Gemini, who needs a partner who will ground them and their flighty twins. That being said, if a Gemini has been wounded in love before, and craves a nurturing and committed soul, a Pisces may just fit the bill. Famous Couples: Seal (Pisces/Aquarius cusp) and Heidi Klum (Gemini), Drew Barrymore (Pisces) and Justin Long (Gemini), Ivana Trump (Pisces) and Donald Trump (Gemini), Drew Barrymore (Pisces) and Fabrizio Moretti (Gemini), Callista Gingrich (Pisces) and Newt Gingrich (Gemini)
Sagittarius and Pisces, at some point, will find themselves together. It doesn’t normally last long, and it normally doesn’t end well, but nonetheless, it is a trap they often fall into. Sagittarius falls for Pisces unworldly and imaginative persona. They are so intriguing and ethereal, that the Sagittarius feels challenged to “capture” the Pisces. It is important to note that this pairing is more common when the man is the Sagittarius and the woman is the Pisces. The female Pisces will fall for the charming Sagittarius man who is adventurous, funny and goal-oriented. As she is typically weak on those traits, she feels incredibly drawn to this “foreign” energy and wants to be a part of it for a while. Likewise, the Sagittarius man is humbled by the emotional, sensitive, and creative Pisces woman—she seems so delicate and charming and perfect. That is, until she starts crying because she doesn’t have his attention, or when she complains he doesn’t love her or show his emotions enough. The Sag gets annoyed by the wishy-washy Pisces and her inability to make a decision. Angers flare and the Pisces woman throws a bucket of water over the enraged fiery Sagittarius…and then it is over. Famous Couples: Chris Webber (Pisces) and Tyra Banks (Sag)
Leo is sexual and shows love and emotions easily (and demands a lot of attention), so at the very least, a Pisces and a Leo will not worry about expressing their feelings accordingly. Since Leo likes being in charge and telling others what to do, and Pisces is looking to be told what to do, this pair can actually work. HOWEVER, Leo hates whining and hates being held back by emotionally weakness, such as manipulation, depression, or moodiness. And Pisces do that oh-so-well. As long as Leo can handle Pisces’ emotional persona, and Pisces won’t take Leo’s bossiness as a symbol of domination, they may find love together. At the very least, they will find great sex. Famous Couples: Justin Beiber (Pisces) and Selena Gomez (Leo/Cancer Cusp), Tea Leoni (Pisces) and David Duchovny (Leo), Elizabeth Taylor (Pisces) and Eddie Fisher (Leo), Desi Arnaz (Pisces) and Lucille Ball (Leo), Lauren Graham (Pisces) and Peter Krause (Leo)
Two Pisces together is a disaster. Too many emotions, too little motivation, and far too little direction, leaves these two a complete mess together. Pisces needs a more practical counterpart (or backbone) to make it in this world. Famous Couples: Rachel Weisz and Daniel Craig
Surprisingly Good Matches: Aquarius, Aries, Libra
Aquarius has a natural humanitarian instinct, which appeals to the nurturing Pisces. Yet, these two can have a limited fuse for one another. Aquarius tends to be too unemotional or unstable for the sensitive Pisces. While the Aquarius wants to be out and about, socialize and meet new people, the Pisces hates crowds or social events and prefers to be a loner and either stay at home, or watch and observe the crowd. Pisces do better in a one-on-one capacity with someone they know, and nothing, NOTHING, is as boring to an Aquarian as someone who doesn’t know how to carry a conversation with a complete stranger. Aquarius also tends to be a hard worker and puts in long hours at the office, always focusing on making money or vast improvements in the world. While Pisces respects this, they tend to thrive more on balance. Where they will understand one another is in trying to help mankind improve itself. They may pursue it from different angles (Aquarius thinks big, whereas Pisces thinks on a smaller scale), but pursue it they will. Both signs are incredibly charming, so they can channel their flirtatious personas into a very sexy relationship IF they are willing to understand one another’s differences and realize the treasure they have found in one another. If Aquarius is smart enough to acknowledge how lucky they are to have a soulful Pisces in their life to calm them down, and if Pisces is willing to admit they need Aquarius to motivate them to be the best person they can be, then they wouldn’t be such a bad couple after all. They could be great, in fact. Famous Couples: Jessica Biel (Pisces) and Justin Timberlake (Aquarius), Rachel Weisz (Pisces) and Darren Aronofsky (Aquarius), Elizabeth Taylor (Pisces) and John Warner (Aquarius), Stedman Graham (Pisces) and Oprah Winfrey (Aquarius), Paul Newman (Aquarius) and Joanne Woodward (Pisces)
Aries can be very superficial and needs to be in the spotlight at all times. Since Pisces can be turned off by excessive material wealth, this can be a weird match. BUT, if the man is the Aries in this picture, and the female is a Pisces, then there is some hope. A female Pisces loves being taken care of and loves feeling rich, decked out in jewels, fur coats, and expensive décor. She almost has a childlike delight at feeling like the princess in her own fairytale world. The Aries man thrives in providing her all of these things, especially since she looks so great in them and she is so appreciative of these gifts. He provides her not only with material security, but also a sense of adventure. If she doesn’t get jealous of his flirtatious character, and he doesn’t get bothered by her clingy behavior, they can really work well together. Famous Couples: Freddie Prinze Jr. (Pisces) and Sarah Michelle Gellar (Aries), Mitt Romney (Pisces) and Ann Romney (Aries)
Libra is all about harmony, balance, aesthetic pleasure, and peace. For this reason, Pisces can’t help but feel attracted to the world their charming Libra has created for them. As long as Pisces isn’t bothered by Libra’s social personality and constant over-analyzing, and Pisces doesn’t pull their infamous bouts of rage or temper tantrums, these two can co-exist very happily together. They just need to understand that their temperaments and personalities are different—but not different enough to give them a shot at trying it out. The Libra is a go-getter, planner and motivator. All of which are Pisces’ weakest traits. The Pisces is emotionally thoughtful, purposeful and sensitive, all of which can sometimes be Libra’s weakest traits. This pair can be a ying to the other’s yang if the stars are aligned correctly when they meet. Famous Couples: Chris Martin (Pisces) and Gwyneth Paltrow (Libra), Jon Bon Jovi (Pisces) and Dorothea Hurley (Libra), Dana Reeve (Pisces) and Christopher Reeve (Libra), Joel Madden (Pisces) and Hilary Duff (Libra)
Sunday, November 18, 2007
Sunday, November 4, 2007
The Stars Incline, they do not DEFINE
So this blog has been running now for almost 3 months. Wow. 3 months! We have covered a variety of topics in such a short time:
"The One"-- where to find them, how to meet them, the importance of astrological compatibility, and, most importantly, how to date them and hold onto them once you know what their screwed sign (or cusp) is.
Birth Charts-- know it, do it, live it and love it. It's an entire map of your OWN personal life and the power of your stars and planets. It doesn't get much more "wow" than that. I mean, the UNIVERSE has a MAP all about YOU.
Retro Trips-- fear and loathing in a period of despair and misery. OK, not THAT bad, but still not fun (much like going to the doctor or dentist...you gotta do it for a "tune up" but that doesn't mean you ENJOY being weighed, lectured and monitored, right?).
Now, the retro trips you can take or leave...the fact is, they DO exist and astronomers (not astrologers) do follow these planetary actions as part of their careers in understanding the solar system and how it functions. Whether you want to believe that a planets' retro actions affect YOUR own personal life is a completely different matter.
So is whether or not you believe in astrology yet. There may be some of you (I hope only some, or else I am worried I am not being a strong influence on you yet...) that are thinking "Cool blog, but I still don't believe in astrology because I don't feel I am a typical [insert sign] and Mercury is apparently in retrograde and my computer AND phone still work perfectly fine, and I always date men/women who are NOT astrologically compatible to me and we are so happy together, and that b*tch I work with has my EXACT birthday (down to the same year!) and we are NOTHING alike. So there. Bah humbug." I am preparing for Christmas already, apparently.
Guess what? You have every right to maintain the above skepticism (as long as you still think this is a "cool blog"). But there is a very important lesson in this all. Just because you have a certain sign, or a certain birth chart, does NOT mean that this is how you should define your life or character.
It also doesn't mean that astrology is all a load of bunk. Just because your horoscope doesn't come true everyday, or you aren't a typical model of your sign (however, have you actually listened to me and done your birth chart to find out what you are REALLY made of?), or you don't feel you share common characteristics with other fellow sign mates (even those born on YOUR birthday), doesn't mean it isn't all true.
THE NUMBER ONE RULE OF ASTROLOGY IS: The stars INCLINE, they do not DEFINE.
What your sign and your chart are telling you is that you are naturally inclined or predisposed to behave, act or think in a certain manner. Whether you actually embrace this "natural plan" of the Universe is up to you. Fate and destiny can only take you so far, but free will leads the way. It's all very similar to a road trip analogy: fate and destiny are the fuel in your car (your car being your body) that keeps you moving, but your free will (aka your soul) is the driver. You may already know the way to get to your destination, or ask others for help along the way, or see the better route, or go and buy a map, but it is up to you on how you wish to take this trip. Your free will ultimately decides whether to turn left or right at the fork in the road, or heck, decide to VEER OFF the road altogether. You can hang in there to your proper exit, take the shortcut, or enjoy the scenic route.
OK, I am spent on the obvious cliches.
There are so many options out there. The decisions you make, and the people you surround yourself with, will ultimately shape you just as much as your astrological sign and birth chart. Ever heard of a famous little debate called "Nature vs. Nurture?" That's what this all is! You may lean more towards Nature, more towards Nurture, or strike a fine balance between the two...but just remember: choosing NOT to identify with one aspect of your being is akin to still admitting it exists. You can know you are a flighty Gemini and actively CHOOSE not to be flighty...but that decision in and of itself proves that you feel that natural tendency to be a certain way (aka, the way the stars like to guide you) and CHOOSE not to act accordingly.
On a final note, just remember this: the Universe is much smarter and omniscient than our minds will ever be. If It wanted to create a world where everyone was the same, and every Scorpio acted in only ONE manner, and every Taurus in another, it would be a pretty boring world.
So we all play our role in making this world unique. You will take on specific facets of your sign; you may rebel against your natural inclination towards certain traits of your sign just as equally as you may embrace the other aspects. You can choose to take in more of the "bad qualities" versus the good qualities. It is all up to you. Take a look, for example, at my "Best and Worst Lists" every month under the Astrological Spotlight section. You can choose to focus on the best aspects of being a Scorpio (passion, charisma, intellectual thirst) and still be a true Scorpio...just as your goth and mean Scorpio co-worker who decided to embrace more of the bad qualities (depression, obsession and jealousies). And ironically, you may feel a strong natural inclination to act out on those bad qualities...but ultimately, you decided not to define yourself that way. That doesn't make you a better Scorpio or less of a Scorpio...it only makes you a certain, unique version of one.
Good for you.
Choose your own blend of what makes you the best Scorpio, Gemini, Leo or Virgo you know and live it out. Define yourself the way you wish to be defined, whether that means following that natural astrological inclination...or not.
Next Up: Does a sign always have to be...a sign?
"The One"-- where to find them, how to meet them, the importance of astrological compatibility, and, most importantly, how to date them and hold onto them once you know what their screwed sign (or cusp) is.
Birth Charts-- know it, do it, live it and love it. It's an entire map of your OWN personal life and the power of your stars and planets. It doesn't get much more "wow" than that. I mean, the UNIVERSE has a MAP all about YOU.
Retro Trips-- fear and loathing in a period of despair and misery. OK, not THAT bad, but still not fun (much like going to the doctor or dentist...you gotta do it for a "tune up" but that doesn't mean you ENJOY being weighed, lectured and monitored, right?).
Now, the retro trips you can take or leave...the fact is, they DO exist and astronomers (not astrologers) do follow these planetary actions as part of their careers in understanding the solar system and how it functions. Whether you want to believe that a planets' retro actions affect YOUR own personal life is a completely different matter.
So is whether or not you believe in astrology yet. There may be some of you (I hope only some, or else I am worried I am not being a strong influence on you yet...) that are thinking "Cool blog, but I still don't believe in astrology because I don't feel I am a typical [insert sign] and Mercury is apparently in retrograde and my computer AND phone still work perfectly fine, and I always date men/women who are NOT astrologically compatible to me and we are so happy together, and that b*tch I work with has my EXACT birthday (down to the same year!) and we are NOTHING alike. So there. Bah humbug." I am preparing for Christmas already, apparently.
Guess what? You have every right to maintain the above skepticism (as long as you still think this is a "cool blog"). But there is a very important lesson in this all. Just because you have a certain sign, or a certain birth chart, does NOT mean that this is how you should define your life or character.
It also doesn't mean that astrology is all a load of bunk. Just because your horoscope doesn't come true everyday, or you aren't a typical model of your sign (however, have you actually listened to me and done your birth chart to find out what you are REALLY made of?), or you don't feel you share common characteristics with other fellow sign mates (even those born on YOUR birthday), doesn't mean it isn't all true.
THE NUMBER ONE RULE OF ASTROLOGY IS: The stars INCLINE, they do not DEFINE.
What your sign and your chart are telling you is that you are naturally inclined or predisposed to behave, act or think in a certain manner. Whether you actually embrace this "natural plan" of the Universe is up to you. Fate and destiny can only take you so far, but free will leads the way. It's all very similar to a road trip analogy: fate and destiny are the fuel in your car (your car being your body) that keeps you moving, but your free will (aka your soul) is the driver. You may already know the way to get to your destination, or ask others for help along the way, or see the better route, or go and buy a map, but it is up to you on how you wish to take this trip. Your free will ultimately decides whether to turn left or right at the fork in the road, or heck, decide to VEER OFF the road altogether. You can hang in there to your proper exit, take the shortcut, or enjoy the scenic route.
OK, I am spent on the obvious cliches.
There are so many options out there. The decisions you make, and the people you surround yourself with, will ultimately shape you just as much as your astrological sign and birth chart. Ever heard of a famous little debate called "Nature vs. Nurture?" That's what this all is! You may lean more towards Nature, more towards Nurture, or strike a fine balance between the two...but just remember: choosing NOT to identify with one aspect of your being is akin to still admitting it exists. You can know you are a flighty Gemini and actively CHOOSE not to be flighty...but that decision in and of itself proves that you feel that natural tendency to be a certain way (aka, the way the stars like to guide you) and CHOOSE not to act accordingly.
On a final note, just remember this: the Universe is much smarter and omniscient than our minds will ever be. If It wanted to create a world where everyone was the same, and every Scorpio acted in only ONE manner, and every Taurus in another, it would be a pretty boring world.
So we all play our role in making this world unique. You will take on specific facets of your sign; you may rebel against your natural inclination towards certain traits of your sign just as equally as you may embrace the other aspects. You can choose to take in more of the "bad qualities" versus the good qualities. It is all up to you. Take a look, for example, at my "Best and Worst Lists" every month under the Astrological Spotlight section. You can choose to focus on the best aspects of being a Scorpio (passion, charisma, intellectual thirst) and still be a true Scorpio...just as your goth and mean Scorpio co-worker who decided to embrace more of the bad qualities (depression, obsession and jealousies). And ironically, you may feel a strong natural inclination to act out on those bad qualities...but ultimately, you decided not to define yourself that way. That doesn't make you a better Scorpio or less of a Scorpio...it only makes you a certain, unique version of one.
Good for you.
Choose your own blend of what makes you the best Scorpio, Gemini, Leo or Virgo you know and live it out. Define yourself the way you wish to be defined, whether that means following that natural astrological inclination...or not.
Next Up: Does a sign always have to be...a sign?
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