April showers bring May flowers, and March came in like a lion and out like a lamb, so here's a toast to fields of flowers (with low pollen counts for you allergy sufferers out there) and plenty of sun in the upcoming months when Spring slowly turns into Summer.
Here are some things to be excited about:
1) Mercury will be out of retrograde as of May 11. It started on April 18, and it has been killer so far, as evidenced from the many e-mails I have received asking "Is Mercury in retro or something? My life has been f$%$%$^%$ this past week." Why, yes, yes it is in retro. Forewarned is forearmed!
2) The days are getting longer, which means leaving work when the sun is still shining.
3) SUMMER VACATION!!!
Now, for all you Virgo's out there thinking, "I never take a vacation", how about finally taking a "risk" and doing something fun? Seriously, it is life changing to actually ENJOY life. Why not spend time with your favorite Cancer, who is giddy about digging their crabby little claws into the sand and enjoying the smell of the ocean air, and plan a sweet little vacation?
In fact, why doesn't everyone start planning their Summer vacations right now? Airline industries may be suffering thanks to freak volcanic eruptions in Iceland, but that doesn't mean your travel plans should suffer any longer (unless the airlines decide to hike up ticket costs to cover their own expenses, in which case, ACT FAST!).
Here are some helpful tips and suggestions for where to go on your next vacation and enjoy what Summer has to offer you.
Capricorn: lots of life changes this year, and many of you are having a baby, or starting a new company (which is like a baby), so you need to make sure your energy levels are being replenished regularly to avoid over-stressing your already workaholic system. Consider a mountain/lakeside retreat that provides on site massage services and a fine dining restaurant to indulge your taste buds.
Aquarius: too many projects, too little time. You have been burning both ends with frequent travel and/or projects, and have barely spent time in your own home. Since a staycation may give you hives, try something calming like a weekend in the countryside, visiting vineyards or enjoying some picnics. You need to recharge. And hey, if the French countryside sounds like a good spot to sit down and have some brie and a baguette, then so be it.
Pisces: you have been putting more time into your career and long term goals than ever before, and while most of you are watching your savings accounts, it wouldn't hurt to be a little generous right now with yourself and your loved one and do something special. You could piggy back a volunteer opportunity with a vacation destination, perhaps joining a fundraising campaign or local church event to raise money. Better yet, go lend a hand in another country, or even here in the U.S. (New Orleans?), and enjoy immersing yourself in a new culture, while also doing something to help mankind.
Aries: you have to watch your health with all this stress and frustration building up inside you. Take a time out. In your case, a staycation might be the ticket, but so would going to a nice hotel/resort somewhere exciting and upbeat(Miami, New York, Los Angeles, etc) where you can dance all night or go seek out fun new events, such as art exhibits, music concerts, and fashion trunk shows.
Taurus: working more hours than normal has made you feel a bit off-balanced. Go visit a friend in another state and enjoy his/her company, and city (or town), for a week. Chill on the beach, at a vineyard, or in the woods, and catch up on your reading, meditate, and re-engage yourself in your hobbies. Napa Valley would be a great destination spot, but if that is too far from where you are, look up local vineyards in your state. If there is an estate, book a reservation for a room and a nice dinner (and maybe throw in a massage while you are at it).
Gemini: hello, run down busy-bee! Slow down and take some deep breathes. Go sit out in the park and take a nap, catch up on gossip magazines or that book next to your nightstand, and fill your mind with fun and entertaining things rather then staying immersed in so much seriousness. Get tickets to your favorite sporting event, or to a new exhibit (preferably out of town and in a nearby city), and treat yourself. Stop off at the beach on your way home. You could use a little sun.
Cancer: time for an adventure, little crab. Since you come alive during the warm, summer months, show the world what you are made of and strut your stuff. Plan a trip somewhere new and fun and enjoy learning about new cultures, foods, and histories. You are ready to be stimulated--in more ways than one! Try India, Asia, Africa, or South America. DO IT!
Leo: you are approaching serious red-level danger codes if you don't take a step back and evaluate before moving forward. Stop focusing on everyone else, and look inward. Take a trip somewhere relaxing, but also where you can go out at night and slut yourself up for some naughty fun. Cheap flights to Mexico or South America may do the trick. Find a resort package and book it!
Virgo: yes, yes, we know, you don't take vacations. Bla bla bla. It is boring to hear. Even if you have to go by yourself, just treat yourself with something that will engage your mind. Perhaps there is a convention somewhere that focuses on your favorite hobby? Book tickets to attend whatever conference/convention that interests you (please try and make it NON work-related), and if it is in a not-so-fun location, check out nearby spots for daytime or overnight trips.
Libra: time to take a trip with your best friends and totally stir things up. While it may sound cliche, you just need to go to the beach and experience some good old "Spring Break" type of fun. If your Spring Break locations are as cool as Ibiza or somewhere on the Mediterranean, then by all means, go. If it is only as thrilling as the Jersey Shore, who cares? The important part is who you go with (hint: someone fun who may make you do something scandalous!).
Scorpio: explore and learn! It is time you uncover the hidden truths of a foreign land, maybe tie it into something spiritual. Try Stonehedge or Macchu Picchu--absorb all that you can about the myths and the spiritual symbolism of these revered places and let that inspire you for whatever is missing in your life right now. If you can't go international, try a local historic town to get your occult juices flowing.
Sagittarius: your travel clock is ticking. You need an adventure!! Find a last minute deal online and just go somewhere outrageous for no other reason than it would be a great story to tell. Don't plan an itinerary. Just go. Try something fun like a safari in Africa, whale watching in Vancouver British Columbia, dancing in Buenos Aires, or surfing in Australia. You get the picture: WILD, RANDOM, FUN!
And if you don't know where to begin, just go to your preferred Internet search engine, type in some key words, and see where Fate directs you.
Happy Travels!
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The PISCES 4-1-1
Element: Water
Ruling Planet: Neptune, Jupiter
Quality: Mutable
Nature: Negative, Feminine
Symbol: Fish
Health Alert: Pisces rule the feet and its structural bones and toes. They must be careful with sprains, stubbed toes, ankle issues, bunions, or broken bones. Since many Pisces are avid runners, dancers or sports-enthusiasts, they need to learn to guard their feet to avoid permanent damage or invasive surgery. Internally, Pisces rule the lymphatic system. They must take caution when it comes to internal inflammation, gland functions in general, and problems with drugs. Allergic reactions to drugs, and a susceptibility to addictions, can become a serious issue for Pisces, who use drugs and alcohol to escape reality or numb themselves from their intense emotions. These said emotions can cause Pisces to struggle with depression and psychosomatic illnesses more often than not. Most of their health issues stem from emotional distress, and as such, they tend to have a weak immune system to fight off colds, flu, sinus infections, or other illnesses. Therapeutic ways of avoiding addictive tendencies and reducing stress on the body would be yoga or Pilates, which most Pisces love because it helps them to feel spiritually aligned as well. Last but not least, Pisces tend to indulge in expensive tastes when it comes to rich foods. They should be wary of excessive drinking and eating, especially late night. Their bodies have a delicate system and their metabolism is a bit weaker than most.
Where to Find a Pisces: performing on-stage, whether it be a dance production, musical collaboration, or play. They are heavily involved in the arts, so when they aren’t on stage, they can likely be found working late hours in an art or dance studio, reading in a bookstore, rehearsing their lines with a cast mate, cooking in a restaurant, or attending a lecture on religion or philosophy. You may also find a lot of Pisces working in marketing or graphic design firms, as they get to apply their artistic skills in a corporate environment. You can also find them near water (ocean, lake, etc) meditating or just watching the scenery while writing down their latest poem or chapter in their novel. Most Pisceans are involved in charity work and the Church, so an easy target would be to go to a worship service or sign up for volunteer work in your area (animal shelters, soup kitchens, mentoring programs, campaign fundraising, etc). New Age workshops, readings, or events is a prime target for the typical Pisces, who is very in-tune with alternative lifestyles. This said lifestyle leads them to organic food markets and grocery stores, too. If all else fails, you are guaranteed to find a Pisces in a yoga or Pilates studio (and probably, they are teaching the class!).
How to Spot a Pisces: they are fairly easy to spot because they tend to stand out like a sore thumb in a crowd. Many of them have light eyes that are soft and soulful, which they use to analyze the environment around them. They won’t be the loud person in the room always talking. In fact, they will be the quiet one you have to draw out of their shell. Once they are drawn out, they can be quite witty and charming, surprising most people. A hearty laugh that throws their head back, and frequent movements of their head is also a noticeable trait (that “huh? me?” what?” movement). It’s almost as if they look like someone has splashed water on their face. Their faces, and facial movements, are quite expressive when they become animated—otherwise, they can look like a deer in headlights most of the time. They may wave their arms around when they talk as well, almost as if they are dancing or giving a grand speech in their head at the same time that they are sitting down and talking to you about their day. The women are drawn to floral prints and very feminine pieces (sheer fabrics, summer dresses, scarves, subdued prints, etc) that allow them to move easily and comfortably. The less glamorous Pisces woman will wear jeans and a fleece jacket or t-shirt all the time (and some kind of creative addition, like a scarf around their head, a cool/different piece of jewelry, or a fun headband) or have a more hippy look (flowing printed dresses an earth tones), and the more glamorous will have no problem decking herself out in jewels, a fur coat, and a plunging neckline showing her curvy figure (think of Elizabeth Taylor when she was young). She uses her clothes to define herself as either a sexy siren or a natural beauty. The men love wearing blues and greens, and will often be in khakis or some other relaxed-wear. In business, they are always in sharp suits and have impeccable taste. They like to look good—it helps them charm the women more so that they can get what they want!
How to Attract a Pisces: have a kind heart, an interest in the arts and in their passion for the arts, and be attractive. Pisces are very visual and don’t like things that look messy or in disarray—it throws them off balance. If you are a good soul, with a strong will, they will fall madly in love with you. Typically, a Pisces is first attracted sexually, but will wait to get to know you better before really falling in love (Do you have the same interests? Are you spiritual? Do you respect yourself? Are you a family person?). Ironically, even though Pisces are attracted to pretty people, they are turned off by materialistic ones. A Pisces man loves an attractive, feminine woman, but if she spends too much money on shoes, bags, or clothes, or expects that he spends his money on her, he is quickly turned off. He will view her motives as selfish, materialistic, and greedy. A Pisces woman is always looking for a man who is put together and successful. She needs to feel secure and taken care of, and a well dressed man with a good bank account is definitely the route to her heart, even if he can be slightly selfish or self-involved, she falls for his charms. The general rule of thumb, however, is just to be a good, nice person—someone that a Pisces considers to be honest, virtuous, and loyal. A wicked sense of humor will also help you. Many Pisces are in the entertainment industry, notably as comedians or actors, and love making people laugh. You should take to heart that Pisces have very volatile emotions, as well. This means they can be obsessed with you one moment, and disinterested in the next. Be willing to ride their emotional waves (and sometimes, tsunamis) if you want to spend a lifetime together.
How to Lose a Pisces: being more emotionally erratic than they are, loud, or pretentious, is a great way to get rid of your Pisces. They may hang in there for a while because they dig a little bit of the crazy (they are crazy too, after all), but they will quickly swim upstream after a short while. They loathe nasty behavior, ugly people, negative personalities, and irresponsible partners. Female Pisces are looking for a strong, alpha male to protect them; male Pisces are looking for a feminine, faithful and kind-hearted alpha female to nourish them. It’s really that simple. So, if you don’t fall within the lines, you simply don’t matter to a Pisces.
Ruling Planet: Neptune, Jupiter
Quality: Mutable
Nature: Negative, Feminine
Symbol: Fish
Health Alert: Pisces rule the feet and its structural bones and toes. They must be careful with sprains, stubbed toes, ankle issues, bunions, or broken bones. Since many Pisces are avid runners, dancers or sports-enthusiasts, they need to learn to guard their feet to avoid permanent damage or invasive surgery. Internally, Pisces rule the lymphatic system. They must take caution when it comes to internal inflammation, gland functions in general, and problems with drugs. Allergic reactions to drugs, and a susceptibility to addictions, can become a serious issue for Pisces, who use drugs and alcohol to escape reality or numb themselves from their intense emotions. These said emotions can cause Pisces to struggle with depression and psychosomatic illnesses more often than not. Most of their health issues stem from emotional distress, and as such, they tend to have a weak immune system to fight off colds, flu, sinus infections, or other illnesses. Therapeutic ways of avoiding addictive tendencies and reducing stress on the body would be yoga or Pilates, which most Pisces love because it helps them to feel spiritually aligned as well. Last but not least, Pisces tend to indulge in expensive tastes when it comes to rich foods. They should be wary of excessive drinking and eating, especially late night. Their bodies have a delicate system and their metabolism is a bit weaker than most.
Where to Find a Pisces: performing on-stage, whether it be a dance production, musical collaboration, or play. They are heavily involved in the arts, so when they aren’t on stage, they can likely be found working late hours in an art or dance studio, reading in a bookstore, rehearsing their lines with a cast mate, cooking in a restaurant, or attending a lecture on religion or philosophy. You may also find a lot of Pisces working in marketing or graphic design firms, as they get to apply their artistic skills in a corporate environment. You can also find them near water (ocean, lake, etc) meditating or just watching the scenery while writing down their latest poem or chapter in their novel. Most Pisceans are involved in charity work and the Church, so an easy target would be to go to a worship service or sign up for volunteer work in your area (animal shelters, soup kitchens, mentoring programs, campaign fundraising, etc). New Age workshops, readings, or events is a prime target for the typical Pisces, who is very in-tune with alternative lifestyles. This said lifestyle leads them to organic food markets and grocery stores, too. If all else fails, you are guaranteed to find a Pisces in a yoga or Pilates studio (and probably, they are teaching the class!).
How to Spot a Pisces: they are fairly easy to spot because they tend to stand out like a sore thumb in a crowd. Many of them have light eyes that are soft and soulful, which they use to analyze the environment around them. They won’t be the loud person in the room always talking. In fact, they will be the quiet one you have to draw out of their shell. Once they are drawn out, they can be quite witty and charming, surprising most people. A hearty laugh that throws their head back, and frequent movements of their head is also a noticeable trait (that “huh? me?” what?” movement). It’s almost as if they look like someone has splashed water on their face. Their faces, and facial movements, are quite expressive when they become animated—otherwise, they can look like a deer in headlights most of the time. They may wave their arms around when they talk as well, almost as if they are dancing or giving a grand speech in their head at the same time that they are sitting down and talking to you about their day. The women are drawn to floral prints and very feminine pieces (sheer fabrics, summer dresses, scarves, subdued prints, etc) that allow them to move easily and comfortably. The less glamorous Pisces woman will wear jeans and a fleece jacket or t-shirt all the time (and some kind of creative addition, like a scarf around their head, a cool/different piece of jewelry, or a fun headband) or have a more hippy look (flowing printed dresses an earth tones), and the more glamorous will have no problem decking herself out in jewels, a fur coat, and a plunging neckline showing her curvy figure (think of Elizabeth Taylor when she was young). She uses her clothes to define herself as either a sexy siren or a natural beauty. The men love wearing blues and greens, and will often be in khakis or some other relaxed-wear. In business, they are always in sharp suits and have impeccable taste. They like to look good—it helps them charm the women more so that they can get what they want!
How to Attract a Pisces: have a kind heart, an interest in the arts and in their passion for the arts, and be attractive. Pisces are very visual and don’t like things that look messy or in disarray—it throws them off balance. If you are a good soul, with a strong will, they will fall madly in love with you. Typically, a Pisces is first attracted sexually, but will wait to get to know you better before really falling in love (Do you have the same interests? Are you spiritual? Do you respect yourself? Are you a family person?). Ironically, even though Pisces are attracted to pretty people, they are turned off by materialistic ones. A Pisces man loves an attractive, feminine woman, but if she spends too much money on shoes, bags, or clothes, or expects that he spends his money on her, he is quickly turned off. He will view her motives as selfish, materialistic, and greedy. A Pisces woman is always looking for a man who is put together and successful. She needs to feel secure and taken care of, and a well dressed man with a good bank account is definitely the route to her heart, even if he can be slightly selfish or self-involved, she falls for his charms. The general rule of thumb, however, is just to be a good, nice person—someone that a Pisces considers to be honest, virtuous, and loyal. A wicked sense of humor will also help you. Many Pisces are in the entertainment industry, notably as comedians or actors, and love making people laugh. You should take to heart that Pisces have very volatile emotions, as well. This means they can be obsessed with you one moment, and disinterested in the next. Be willing to ride their emotional waves (and sometimes, tsunamis) if you want to spend a lifetime together.
How to Lose a Pisces: being more emotionally erratic than they are, loud, or pretentious, is a great way to get rid of your Pisces. They may hang in there for a while because they dig a little bit of the crazy (they are crazy too, after all), but they will quickly swim upstream after a short while. They loathe nasty behavior, ugly people, negative personalities, and irresponsible partners. Female Pisces are looking for a strong, alpha male to protect them; male Pisces are looking for a feminine, faithful and kind-hearted alpha female to nourish them. It’s really that simple. So, if you don’t fall within the lines, you simply don’t matter to a Pisces.
FAMOUS PISCES
Clockwise: Javier Bardem, Glenn Close, Daniel Craig, Jessica Biel, Benicio del Toro, Eva Longoria, Justin Bieber, Drew Barrymore, Michael Cain, Rachel Weisz, Steve Jobs, Jennifer Love Hewitt, Billy Crystal, Queen Latifah, Spike Lee, Chelsea Handler, Mitt Romney, Chelsea Clinton, Ralph Nader, Elizabeth Taylor, Albert Einstein, Liza Minnelli, Alan Greenspan, Rue McClanahan, Rob Lowe, Lauren Graham, Bruce Willis, Juliette Binoche, Kurt Russell, Cindy Crawford, Bon Jovi, Vanessa Williams
The PISCES Best & Worst List
Best Qualities: intuitive, nurturing and soulful, Pisces have a way about them that makes people drawn to them. Whether it is because they are mysterious, seem innocent, or make people feel coddled and needed, they are like Mother Nature radiating warmth and harmony. Romantic and charming, Pisces easily find partners in their life to fulfill their needs. Their creativity is limitless, whether they are a male or a female. Male Pisces tend to focus more on cooking or music, and are therefore often found running a kitchen or writing their own music and/or playing an instrument of their choice. Their girlfriends have swooned over their emotional sensitivity and way with words—especially when they put the words in a romantic poem or song while playing their guitar. Female Pisces are more apt to write (poems, short stories) or be an artist or dancer. They have a strong need to use their sense of touch and their free spirit in their creative endeavors and are not afraid to express themselves through dancing, painting, or singing. Regardless of their sex, Pisces are extremely expressive on paper and often live in a fantasy world. Their artistic inclinations just make them very different from the average Joe (or Jane). Their emotions are so strong and finely tuned that, when they become too overwhelming, they can turn them into something beautiful, if they so desire. Inclined to spirituality and New Age beliefs, Pisces is a sign that is typically psychic and somewhat mystical. As the oldest sign of the Zodiac that is also connected astrologically to Jesus Christ, they have profound wisdom and beliefs in a higher power. Many Pisces are strongly linked to churches and religious leaders, and/or are involved in charitable works, volunteering, holistic healing, or counseling.
Worst Qualities: Pisces live in a fantasy world that makes it seem as if they are oh-so-mysterious (people can’t help but wonder “what ARE they thinking about?”), but the reality is that they are so confused about how they feel that they very rarely can make a decision about which mood they are in or which direction to go. Indecisiveness is a big challenge for Pisces and can sometimes render them immutable and left whining and throwing a tantrum because they simply can’t decide between hot and cold, happy or sad, left or right. As fickle as a child, their decisions and actions are at the beck and call of their mood de jour. Making a commitment to a decision, feeling, or idea can be excruciating for them and they end up delegating the decision to someone else. Pisces say that they hate hurting someone’s feelings, but the truth is that many of them get a sadistic kick out of hurting the ones they love. They can be completely self-absorbed and self-centered, so it is hard for them to strike a fine balance between making a decision that is best for them while still making it seem as if they are putting other people’s feelings into consideration. Violent tempers, mood swings, possessive, and addictive personalities are very common to Pisces. Many are apt to deal with depression, jealousies, and feelings of inadequacy or unexplained sadness. Sometimes living in their own fantasy world with their head in the clouds makes the landing on Earth a crash and burn reality. Pisces need to learn to not transfer their own feelings of unhappiness or inadequacy onto their loved ones, or they may end up terribly alone. Also, when a Pisces has made up their mind, they can be incredibly loyal to that decision, which can be a heavy burden on those who don’t agree.
Best Matches: Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn, Cancer, Scorpio
Taurus thrives in the home and needs to feel protected, secure, and loved. Taurus, after all, is in love with the idea of love—wishing that the world is full of romance and sex. In comes Pisces, who, with a wave of a wand, can make all their dreams seem true. Both signs are also drawn to the intensity of touch and are very ethereal. They aren’t afraid to explore their sexuality together and see what happens in the bedroom. Spiritual conversations, intense emotional bonds, and a sense of comfort comes easily when these two signs are paired together. They will be best friends and lovers, which is, after all, the sweetest thing. Famous Couples: Javier Bardem (Pisces) and Penelope Cruz (Taurus), Cindy Crawford (Pisces) and Randy Gerber (Taurus), Eva Longoria (Pisces) and Tony Parker (Taurus), Liza Minnelli (Pisces) and David Gest (Taurus)
Virgo is Pisces perfect astrological opposite. This is to say that they can either be a great couple, or a horrible one. While Pisces may find making a decision hard, Virgo is more apt to say “this is what you do and how you do it.” And when both are stuck for a decision, the over-analytical Virgo and the dreamlike Pisces can sit together for hours arriving at the best decision and exploring all the pro’s and con’s of the situation. Virgo enjoys Pisces mystical and seemingly innocent (and slightly neurotic) side; Pisces delights in Virgo’s purity and strength. Virgo is always reliable when it comes to Pisces because a Virgo always feels the need to protect or nurture their wounded partner. However, Virgo can easily become annoyed with Pisces’ inconsistencies and inability to make decisions. Pisces can feel over-analyzed and criticized by Virgo. The truth is that both are at fault here by simply being who they are. Famous Couples: Cindy Crawford (Pisces) and Richard Gere (Virgo), Emily Blunt (Pisces) and Michael Buble (Virgo)
Capricorn’s drive, stamina, and discipline provide the backbone that the Pisces has always been searching for. Capricorns know how to get things done and get them done right, especially in business and finance. They seldom question their actions and just go for it, something which a Pisces can’t help but admire. Also, since Pisces tends to spend money a bit more recklessly, they benefit greatly by Capricorn’s shrewd financial planning and investment advice. So what does the Pisces bring to the table? Capricorns tend to be aloof and not evolved emotionally speaking—these goats can be a bit too harsh and cold while climbing to the top of that mountain. That’s where Pisces comes in, softening the rough edges of the Capricorn and calming them down, telling them when they are being inappropriate, mean, or too damn cold-hearted. Famous Couples: Penny Lancaster (Pisces) and Rod Stewart (Capricorn), Christine Baumgartner (Pisces) and Kevin Costner (Capricorn), Pat Nixon (Pisces) and Richard Nixon (Capricorn)
Cancer will feel at home in Pisces deep emotional waters; these two literally are as happy as a crab (Cancer) and a fish (Pisces) swimming together in the vast ocean. They are both emotional, sensitive and moody, and feel as if they have found their perfect soul mate in each other. Whether it is staying at home for a nice evening by candlelight, or reading a book in the corner of the living room while sipping on a nightcap, these two simply enjoy each other’s comforting presence. Cancer is a very witty and driven sign, as is Pisces, and together their conversations will flow smoothly and easily. More importantly, neither sign is afraid to call the other out on their BS, and knows when to leave well enough alone. Their union will be mystical, and their bond intensive and somewhat possessive, but that’s how they both roll when it comes to love. At the very least, both of them will be able to understand each other’s emotional volatility. Famous Couples: Kurt Cobain (Pisces) and Courtney Love (Cancer), Johnny Cash (Pisces) and June Carter Cash (Cancer), Vanessa Williams (Pisces) and Rick Fox (Cancer)
Scorpio’s more intense, sensual qualities invigorate Pisces to feel more sexual and sensual—these two will certainly have a romantically charged relationship where feelings and emotions seem very heightened and magnified. Both are very spiritual signs and will be drawn to an alternative lifestyle together and will judge each other rarely, and love each other permanently. They may not marry, but they will happily spend the rest of their lives together. Intellectual stimulation and friendship rules this couple first and foremost, but a healthy physical attraction is definitely there. They both sense what the other needs (for Scorpio, they need space and freedom, especially from judgment; for Pisces, they need attention, coddling, and adoration). Famous Couples: Kurt Russell (Pisces) and Goldie Hawn (Scorpio), Bruce Willis (Pisces) and Demi Moore (Scorpio), Michael Bolton (Pisces) and Nicollette Sheridan (Scorpio), Tom Arnold (Pisces) and Roseanne (Scorpio), Julia Cameron (Pisces) and Martin Scorsese (Scorpio), Elizabeth Taylor (Pisces) and Richard Burton (Scorpio), Alan Greenspan (Pisces) and Andrea Mitchell (Scorpio)
Worst Matches: Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius, Pisces
Gemini’s mercurial wit and personality certainly charms the Pisces, who is mesmerized by Gemini’s social persona. Both signs are mutable, meaning they are able to adapt to the energy or changes in a room/environment. Their flexibility will be essential in making this pair last. Pisces may want to cling or attach themselves to Gemini’s rollercoaster ride—and it may last for a short while. That is, until the Gemini is tired of being bored by Pisces’ sensitive or possessive nature, desire to stay home, or depressive/quiet moods. The only thing Pisces would love to chat about non-stop is the way they are feeling about a situation, which is probably the quickest way to lose a Gemini who can’t STAND to talk about their feelings all the time and would probably prefer talking to a wall instead. Pisces can be too unreliable and unstable for Gemini, who needs a partner who will ground them and their flighty twins. That being said, if a Gemini has been wounded in love before, and craves a nurturing and committed soul, a Pisces may just fit the bill. Famous Couples: Seal (Pisces/Aquarius cusp) and Heidi Klum (Gemini), Drew Barrymore (Pisces) and Justin Long (Gemini), Ivana Trump (Pisces) and Donald Trump (Gemini), Drew Barrymore (Pisces) and Fabrizio Moretti (Gemini), Callista Gingrich (Pisces) and Newt Gingrich (Gemini)
Sagittarius and Pisces, at some point, will find themselves together. It doesn’t normally last long, and it normally doesn’t end well, but nonetheless, it is a trap they often fall into. Sagittarius falls for Pisces unworldly and imaginative persona. They are so intriguing and ethereal, that the Sagittarius feels challenged to “capture” the Pisces. It is important to note that this pairing is more common when the man is the Sagittarius and the woman is the Pisces. The female Pisces will fall for the charming Sagittarius man who is adventurous, funny and goal-oriented. As she is typically weak on those traits, she feels incredibly drawn to this “foreign” energy and wants to be a part of it for a while. Likewise, the Sagittarius man is humbled by the emotional, sensitive, and creative Pisces woman—she seems so delicate and charming and perfect. That is, until she starts crying because she doesn’t have his attention, or when she complains he doesn’t love her or show his emotions enough. The Sag gets annoyed by the wishy-washy Pisces and her inability to make a decision. Angers flare and the Pisces woman throws a bucket of water over the enraged fiery Sagittarius…and then it is over. Famous Couples: Chris Webber (Pisces) and Tyra Banks (Sag)
Leo is sexual and shows love and emotions easily (and demands a lot of attention), so at the very least, a Pisces and a Leo will not worry about expressing their feelings accordingly. Since Leo likes being in charge and telling others what to do, and Pisces is looking to be told what to do, this pair can actually work. HOWEVER, Leo hates whining and hates being held back by emotionally weakness, such as manipulation, depression, or moodiness. And Pisces do that oh-so-well. As long as Leo can handle Pisces’ emotional persona, and Pisces won’t take Leo’s bossiness as a symbol of domination, they may find love together. At the very least, they will find great sex. Famous Couples: Justin Beiber (Pisces) and Selena Gomez (Leo/Cancer Cusp), Tea Leoni (Pisces) and David Duchovny (Leo), Elizabeth Taylor (Pisces) and Eddie Fisher (Leo), Desi Arnaz (Pisces) and Lucille Ball (Leo), Lauren Graham (Pisces) and Peter Krause (Leo)
Two Pisces together is a disaster. Too many emotions, too little motivation, and far too little direction, leaves these two a complete mess together. Pisces needs a more practical counterpart (or backbone) to make it in this world. Famous Couples: Rachel Weisz and Daniel Craig
Surprisingly Good Matches: Aquarius, Aries, Libra
Aquarius has a natural humanitarian instinct, which appeals to the nurturing Pisces. Yet, these two can have a limited fuse for one another. Aquarius tends to be too unemotional or unstable for the sensitive Pisces. While the Aquarius wants to be out and about, socialize and meet new people, the Pisces hates crowds or social events and prefers to be a loner and either stay at home, or watch and observe the crowd. Pisces do better in a one-on-one capacity with someone they know, and nothing, NOTHING, is as boring to an Aquarian as someone who doesn’t know how to carry a conversation with a complete stranger. Aquarius also tends to be a hard worker and puts in long hours at the office, always focusing on making money or vast improvements in the world. While Pisces respects this, they tend to thrive more on balance. Where they will understand one another is in trying to help mankind improve itself. They may pursue it from different angles (Aquarius thinks big, whereas Pisces thinks on a smaller scale), but pursue it they will. Both signs are incredibly charming, so they can channel their flirtatious personas into a very sexy relationship IF they are willing to understand one another’s differences and realize the treasure they have found in one another. If Aquarius is smart enough to acknowledge how lucky they are to have a soulful Pisces in their life to calm them down, and if Pisces is willing to admit they need Aquarius to motivate them to be the best person they can be, then they wouldn’t be such a bad couple after all. They could be great, in fact. Famous Couples: Jessica Biel (Pisces) and Justin Timberlake (Aquarius), Rachel Weisz (Pisces) and Darren Aronofsky (Aquarius), Elizabeth Taylor (Pisces) and John Warner (Aquarius), Stedman Graham (Pisces) and Oprah Winfrey (Aquarius), Paul Newman (Aquarius) and Joanne Woodward (Pisces)
Aries can be very superficial and needs to be in the spotlight at all times. Since Pisces can be turned off by excessive material wealth, this can be a weird match. BUT, if the man is the Aries in this picture, and the female is a Pisces, then there is some hope. A female Pisces loves being taken care of and loves feeling rich, decked out in jewels, fur coats, and expensive décor. She almost has a childlike delight at feeling like the princess in her own fairytale world. The Aries man thrives in providing her all of these things, especially since she looks so great in them and she is so appreciative of these gifts. He provides her not only with material security, but also a sense of adventure. If she doesn’t get jealous of his flirtatious character, and he doesn’t get bothered by her clingy behavior, they can really work well together. Famous Couples: Freddie Prinze Jr. (Pisces) and Sarah Michelle Gellar (Aries), Mitt Romney (Pisces) and Ann Romney (Aries)
Libra is all about harmony, balance, aesthetic pleasure, and peace. For this reason, Pisces can’t help but feel attracted to the world their charming Libra has created for them. As long as Pisces isn’t bothered by Libra’s social personality and constant over-analyzing, and Pisces doesn’t pull their infamous bouts of rage or temper tantrums, these two can co-exist very happily together. They just need to understand that their temperaments and personalities are different—but not different enough to give them a shot at trying it out. The Libra is a go-getter, planner and motivator. All of which are Pisces’ weakest traits. The Pisces is emotionally thoughtful, purposeful and sensitive, all of which can sometimes be Libra’s weakest traits. This pair can be a ying to the other’s yang if the stars are aligned correctly when they meet. Famous Couples: Chris Martin (Pisces) and Gwyneth Paltrow (Libra), Jon Bon Jovi (Pisces) and Dorothea Hurley (Libra), Dana Reeve (Pisces) and Christopher Reeve (Libra), Joel Madden (Pisces) and Hilary Duff (Libra)
Worst Qualities: Pisces live in a fantasy world that makes it seem as if they are oh-so-mysterious (people can’t help but wonder “what ARE they thinking about?”), but the reality is that they are so confused about how they feel that they very rarely can make a decision about which mood they are in or which direction to go. Indecisiveness is a big challenge for Pisces and can sometimes render them immutable and left whining and throwing a tantrum because they simply can’t decide between hot and cold, happy or sad, left or right. As fickle as a child, their decisions and actions are at the beck and call of their mood de jour. Making a commitment to a decision, feeling, or idea can be excruciating for them and they end up delegating the decision to someone else. Pisces say that they hate hurting someone’s feelings, but the truth is that many of them get a sadistic kick out of hurting the ones they love. They can be completely self-absorbed and self-centered, so it is hard for them to strike a fine balance between making a decision that is best for them while still making it seem as if they are putting other people’s feelings into consideration. Violent tempers, mood swings, possessive, and addictive personalities are very common to Pisces. Many are apt to deal with depression, jealousies, and feelings of inadequacy or unexplained sadness. Sometimes living in their own fantasy world with their head in the clouds makes the landing on Earth a crash and burn reality. Pisces need to learn to not transfer their own feelings of unhappiness or inadequacy onto their loved ones, or they may end up terribly alone. Also, when a Pisces has made up their mind, they can be incredibly loyal to that decision, which can be a heavy burden on those who don’t agree.
Best Matches: Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn, Cancer, Scorpio
Taurus thrives in the home and needs to feel protected, secure, and loved. Taurus, after all, is in love with the idea of love—wishing that the world is full of romance and sex. In comes Pisces, who, with a wave of a wand, can make all their dreams seem true. Both signs are also drawn to the intensity of touch and are very ethereal. They aren’t afraid to explore their sexuality together and see what happens in the bedroom. Spiritual conversations, intense emotional bonds, and a sense of comfort comes easily when these two signs are paired together. They will be best friends and lovers, which is, after all, the sweetest thing. Famous Couples: Javier Bardem (Pisces) and Penelope Cruz (Taurus), Cindy Crawford (Pisces) and Randy Gerber (Taurus), Eva Longoria (Pisces) and Tony Parker (Taurus), Liza Minnelli (Pisces) and David Gest (Taurus)
Virgo is Pisces perfect astrological opposite. This is to say that they can either be a great couple, or a horrible one. While Pisces may find making a decision hard, Virgo is more apt to say “this is what you do and how you do it.” And when both are stuck for a decision, the over-analytical Virgo and the dreamlike Pisces can sit together for hours arriving at the best decision and exploring all the pro’s and con’s of the situation. Virgo enjoys Pisces mystical and seemingly innocent (and slightly neurotic) side; Pisces delights in Virgo’s purity and strength. Virgo is always reliable when it comes to Pisces because a Virgo always feels the need to protect or nurture their wounded partner. However, Virgo can easily become annoyed with Pisces’ inconsistencies and inability to make decisions. Pisces can feel over-analyzed and criticized by Virgo. The truth is that both are at fault here by simply being who they are. Famous Couples: Cindy Crawford (Pisces) and Richard Gere (Virgo), Emily Blunt (Pisces) and Michael Buble (Virgo)
Capricorn’s drive, stamina, and discipline provide the backbone that the Pisces has always been searching for. Capricorns know how to get things done and get them done right, especially in business and finance. They seldom question their actions and just go for it, something which a Pisces can’t help but admire. Also, since Pisces tends to spend money a bit more recklessly, they benefit greatly by Capricorn’s shrewd financial planning and investment advice. So what does the Pisces bring to the table? Capricorns tend to be aloof and not evolved emotionally speaking—these goats can be a bit too harsh and cold while climbing to the top of that mountain. That’s where Pisces comes in, softening the rough edges of the Capricorn and calming them down, telling them when they are being inappropriate, mean, or too damn cold-hearted. Famous Couples: Penny Lancaster (Pisces) and Rod Stewart (Capricorn), Christine Baumgartner (Pisces) and Kevin Costner (Capricorn), Pat Nixon (Pisces) and Richard Nixon (Capricorn)
Cancer will feel at home in Pisces deep emotional waters; these two literally are as happy as a crab (Cancer) and a fish (Pisces) swimming together in the vast ocean. They are both emotional, sensitive and moody, and feel as if they have found their perfect soul mate in each other. Whether it is staying at home for a nice evening by candlelight, or reading a book in the corner of the living room while sipping on a nightcap, these two simply enjoy each other’s comforting presence. Cancer is a very witty and driven sign, as is Pisces, and together their conversations will flow smoothly and easily. More importantly, neither sign is afraid to call the other out on their BS, and knows when to leave well enough alone. Their union will be mystical, and their bond intensive and somewhat possessive, but that’s how they both roll when it comes to love. At the very least, both of them will be able to understand each other’s emotional volatility. Famous Couples: Kurt Cobain (Pisces) and Courtney Love (Cancer), Johnny Cash (Pisces) and June Carter Cash (Cancer), Vanessa Williams (Pisces) and Rick Fox (Cancer)
Scorpio’s more intense, sensual qualities invigorate Pisces to feel more sexual and sensual—these two will certainly have a romantically charged relationship where feelings and emotions seem very heightened and magnified. Both are very spiritual signs and will be drawn to an alternative lifestyle together and will judge each other rarely, and love each other permanently. They may not marry, but they will happily spend the rest of their lives together. Intellectual stimulation and friendship rules this couple first and foremost, but a healthy physical attraction is definitely there. They both sense what the other needs (for Scorpio, they need space and freedom, especially from judgment; for Pisces, they need attention, coddling, and adoration). Famous Couples: Kurt Russell (Pisces) and Goldie Hawn (Scorpio), Bruce Willis (Pisces) and Demi Moore (Scorpio), Michael Bolton (Pisces) and Nicollette Sheridan (Scorpio), Tom Arnold (Pisces) and Roseanne (Scorpio), Julia Cameron (Pisces) and Martin Scorsese (Scorpio), Elizabeth Taylor (Pisces) and Richard Burton (Scorpio), Alan Greenspan (Pisces) and Andrea Mitchell (Scorpio)
Worst Matches: Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius, Pisces
Gemini’s mercurial wit and personality certainly charms the Pisces, who is mesmerized by Gemini’s social persona. Both signs are mutable, meaning they are able to adapt to the energy or changes in a room/environment. Their flexibility will be essential in making this pair last. Pisces may want to cling or attach themselves to Gemini’s rollercoaster ride—and it may last for a short while. That is, until the Gemini is tired of being bored by Pisces’ sensitive or possessive nature, desire to stay home, or depressive/quiet moods. The only thing Pisces would love to chat about non-stop is the way they are feeling about a situation, which is probably the quickest way to lose a Gemini who can’t STAND to talk about their feelings all the time and would probably prefer talking to a wall instead. Pisces can be too unreliable and unstable for Gemini, who needs a partner who will ground them and their flighty twins. That being said, if a Gemini has been wounded in love before, and craves a nurturing and committed soul, a Pisces may just fit the bill. Famous Couples: Seal (Pisces/Aquarius cusp) and Heidi Klum (Gemini), Drew Barrymore (Pisces) and Justin Long (Gemini), Ivana Trump (Pisces) and Donald Trump (Gemini), Drew Barrymore (Pisces) and Fabrizio Moretti (Gemini), Callista Gingrich (Pisces) and Newt Gingrich (Gemini)
Sagittarius and Pisces, at some point, will find themselves together. It doesn’t normally last long, and it normally doesn’t end well, but nonetheless, it is a trap they often fall into. Sagittarius falls for Pisces unworldly and imaginative persona. They are so intriguing and ethereal, that the Sagittarius feels challenged to “capture” the Pisces. It is important to note that this pairing is more common when the man is the Sagittarius and the woman is the Pisces. The female Pisces will fall for the charming Sagittarius man who is adventurous, funny and goal-oriented. As she is typically weak on those traits, she feels incredibly drawn to this “foreign” energy and wants to be a part of it for a while. Likewise, the Sagittarius man is humbled by the emotional, sensitive, and creative Pisces woman—she seems so delicate and charming and perfect. That is, until she starts crying because she doesn’t have his attention, or when she complains he doesn’t love her or show his emotions enough. The Sag gets annoyed by the wishy-washy Pisces and her inability to make a decision. Angers flare and the Pisces woman throws a bucket of water over the enraged fiery Sagittarius…and then it is over. Famous Couples: Chris Webber (Pisces) and Tyra Banks (Sag)
Leo is sexual and shows love and emotions easily (and demands a lot of attention), so at the very least, a Pisces and a Leo will not worry about expressing their feelings accordingly. Since Leo likes being in charge and telling others what to do, and Pisces is looking to be told what to do, this pair can actually work. HOWEVER, Leo hates whining and hates being held back by emotionally weakness, such as manipulation, depression, or moodiness. And Pisces do that oh-so-well. As long as Leo can handle Pisces’ emotional persona, and Pisces won’t take Leo’s bossiness as a symbol of domination, they may find love together. At the very least, they will find great sex. Famous Couples: Justin Beiber (Pisces) and Selena Gomez (Leo/Cancer Cusp), Tea Leoni (Pisces) and David Duchovny (Leo), Elizabeth Taylor (Pisces) and Eddie Fisher (Leo), Desi Arnaz (Pisces) and Lucille Ball (Leo), Lauren Graham (Pisces) and Peter Krause (Leo)
Two Pisces together is a disaster. Too many emotions, too little motivation, and far too little direction, leaves these two a complete mess together. Pisces needs a more practical counterpart (or backbone) to make it in this world. Famous Couples: Rachel Weisz and Daniel Craig
Surprisingly Good Matches: Aquarius, Aries, Libra
Aquarius has a natural humanitarian instinct, which appeals to the nurturing Pisces. Yet, these two can have a limited fuse for one another. Aquarius tends to be too unemotional or unstable for the sensitive Pisces. While the Aquarius wants to be out and about, socialize and meet new people, the Pisces hates crowds or social events and prefers to be a loner and either stay at home, or watch and observe the crowd. Pisces do better in a one-on-one capacity with someone they know, and nothing, NOTHING, is as boring to an Aquarian as someone who doesn’t know how to carry a conversation with a complete stranger. Aquarius also tends to be a hard worker and puts in long hours at the office, always focusing on making money or vast improvements in the world. While Pisces respects this, they tend to thrive more on balance. Where they will understand one another is in trying to help mankind improve itself. They may pursue it from different angles (Aquarius thinks big, whereas Pisces thinks on a smaller scale), but pursue it they will. Both signs are incredibly charming, so they can channel their flirtatious personas into a very sexy relationship IF they are willing to understand one another’s differences and realize the treasure they have found in one another. If Aquarius is smart enough to acknowledge how lucky they are to have a soulful Pisces in their life to calm them down, and if Pisces is willing to admit they need Aquarius to motivate them to be the best person they can be, then they wouldn’t be such a bad couple after all. They could be great, in fact. Famous Couples: Jessica Biel (Pisces) and Justin Timberlake (Aquarius), Rachel Weisz (Pisces) and Darren Aronofsky (Aquarius), Elizabeth Taylor (Pisces) and John Warner (Aquarius), Stedman Graham (Pisces) and Oprah Winfrey (Aquarius), Paul Newman (Aquarius) and Joanne Woodward (Pisces)
Aries can be very superficial and needs to be in the spotlight at all times. Since Pisces can be turned off by excessive material wealth, this can be a weird match. BUT, if the man is the Aries in this picture, and the female is a Pisces, then there is some hope. A female Pisces loves being taken care of and loves feeling rich, decked out in jewels, fur coats, and expensive décor. She almost has a childlike delight at feeling like the princess in her own fairytale world. The Aries man thrives in providing her all of these things, especially since she looks so great in them and she is so appreciative of these gifts. He provides her not only with material security, but also a sense of adventure. If she doesn’t get jealous of his flirtatious character, and he doesn’t get bothered by her clingy behavior, they can really work well together. Famous Couples: Freddie Prinze Jr. (Pisces) and Sarah Michelle Gellar (Aries), Mitt Romney (Pisces) and Ann Romney (Aries)
Libra is all about harmony, balance, aesthetic pleasure, and peace. For this reason, Pisces can’t help but feel attracted to the world their charming Libra has created for them. As long as Pisces isn’t bothered by Libra’s social personality and constant over-analyzing, and Pisces doesn’t pull their infamous bouts of rage or temper tantrums, these two can co-exist very happily together. They just need to understand that their temperaments and personalities are different—but not different enough to give them a shot at trying it out. The Libra is a go-getter, planner and motivator. All of which are Pisces’ weakest traits. The Pisces is emotionally thoughtful, purposeful and sensitive, all of which can sometimes be Libra’s weakest traits. This pair can be a ying to the other’s yang if the stars are aligned correctly when they meet. Famous Couples: Chris Martin (Pisces) and Gwyneth Paltrow (Libra), Jon Bon Jovi (Pisces) and Dorothea Hurley (Libra), Dana Reeve (Pisces) and Christopher Reeve (Libra), Joel Madden (Pisces) and Hilary Duff (Libra)
Wednesday, April 21, 2010
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
Keeping Your Heart Healthy
It is pretty hard these days to turn on the television, flip open a magazine, or engage in a conversation with someone at the water cooler without the inevitable topic of dieting coming up.
How do you stay so thin?
Why can't I lose any weight?
I lose weight and then gain it all back!
I exercise all the time and I don't see any improvement!
I change diets all the time and can't stick to one!
I honestly don't have the time or motivation to lose weight...
And on, and on, and on.
We have heard them all, ranging from those lucky ones who seem to eat whatever they want, whenever they want it, without barely going to the gym, to those who struggle their entire life with weight issues. Even Oprah can't will the gods to help her lose weight--and keep it off. Kirstie Alley now has a new show coming out--Big Life--to publicize her diet and weight problems after infamously losing all her weight via Jenny Craig. All this proves that money can't necessarily buy a fast metabolism or a slender body, but it can help you get on the right track (or land a reality TV show).
But what about us "everyday people" who struggle and have tried it all and can't seem to make anything stick? And by "everyday", I mean those of us who aren't make $15 million per episode or don't have a famous personal trainer making house calls. How can we lose weight, and more importantly, why can't we stop gaining it? Well, the weight gain struggle leads itself to the obvious factors of genetics, health problems, thyroid complications that affect metabolism, lack of time to hit the gym, or lack of money to buy healthier food; but at the end of the day, if we aren't happy with the way we look when we check ourselves out in the mirror, doesn't everything else in our life look lackluster, depressing, or downright annoying?
Why do we wait so long before we make a positive change about something that is as important to us as our image?
Perhaps this post should have been written in January to motivate everyone to research their best weight loss plan in time for their New Year's Resolution, but, eh, deal with it. Better late than never, right? Which is what I say to everyone who is trying to figure it out: better late than never.
So where to begin? How to choose which diet, or types of food, you should eat when there are so many options of each? You probably see where this is going, right? Let's allow the Universe to make the decision up for us! Yes, I am talking about astrology. Eating right for your Sun sign. It may not work, but wouldn't it be worth a shot? Mercury isn't in retrograde until April 18, so you have time to plan and start a new regime before you experience any problems or delays. So get to it!
Your Personal Astrological Diet Plan
FIRE SIGNS (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius):
Fire signs tend to fight off illness easily as they have strong constitutions. Fire burns off toxins, bacteria and viruses, and due to their high levels of physical activity (in and out of the bedroom), they burn off weight faster than most signs. They love their carbs because they need them for energy to run their marathons, fight a battle, or absorb excess alcohol from their night out. HOWEVER, high stress levels, easily flared tempers, and over-working themselves makes them easy targets for heart conditions (such as hypertension), ulcers, and inflammations.
Fire signs also tend to lack patience, so a drawn-out diet that requires too much time or commitment, or shows results slowly, simply won't work. Fire signs need to see immediate progress, and need to feel as if they aren't eliminating anything from their diet in order to succeed at sticking to a plan.
Foods to Eat: grains, vegetables, seafood, pasta, lean meat and proteins, yogurt
Foods to Avoid: spicy foods, red meat, dairy
Suggested Diet Plans: Atkins, South Beach, Sonoma Diet, detox regimes (only to be used to flush their body of excess toxins, sodium, or water weight, not suggested for long-term diets)
EARTH SIGNS (Capricorn, Taurus, Virgo):
Earth signs have slow metabolisms and weak digestive systems, mostly due to over-eating or a diet of heavy foods. As such, Earth signs struggle with weight problems, tumor growth or glandular disorder. They often feel sluggish or tired, and can be found complaining about their fluctuating weight or inability to lose it. Working long hours in their office also makes it harder for them to eat sensible, well-balanced meals in favor of fast food, multiple snacking breaks, or rich fatty foods to keep their energy up (or to compensate for lost meals during the day). They need to find healthier sources of energy and sugar, and help their bodies flush out harmful toxins that they can't naturally break down on their own.
Foods to Eat: fruits, vegetables, juices, teas, salads, soups, spices, seafood, lean meat
Foods to Avoid: butter, sugar, processed foods (crackers, potato chips, popcorn, cookies), potatoes, excess carbs, fried foods, rich foods (fatty meats, cured meats, desserts, creamy cheeses)
Suggested Diet Plans: Glycemic Index, Jenny Craig, Weight Watchers, Grapefruit Diet(used only for a short detox, not as a full time diet plan), Vegetarian or Vegan diet
WATER SIGNS (Pisces, Cancer, Scorpio):
Water signs suffer more than the other elements from digestive issues, such as weak stomachs, poor metabolism, or intestinal problems. Since their health is directly related to their emotional state, they tend to get sick easily, especially if they are in a negative environment, or surrounded by negative people. By remaining in stagnant, emotional, murky waters, these signs suffer from recurring health issues and excess weight. Other notable problems that occur are health problems with excess mucus, cysts, tumors and swellings, as well as systemic candida.
For these signs, patience is less of a problem, and the real solution will come with a healthy, balanced lifestyle that includes a proper diet and frequent exercise, not a crash diet plan.
Foods to Eat: steamed vegetables, fresh seafood, beans and legumes, fruit, soups, salads, herbs, teas, hot water with lemon
Foods to Avoid: fried foods, meat, dairy, breads, salt, excess carbs, sodas, coffee or other high caffeine substances
Suggested Diet Plan: Vegetarian or Vegan, Bob Greene's Diet: The Best Life (focuses on the tie-in between emotions and eating habits), Sonoma Diet, Jenny Craig, Glycemic Index
AIR SIGNS (Gemini, Aquarius, Libra):
Air signs are the luckiest of the elements when it comes to losing weight, or never having to worry about weight to begin with (for the most part; Aquarius Oprah would take issue with me on this!). Their high nervous energy tends to direct them in fast-paced lifestyles, social activities, and high metabolisms (something that anxiety and high stress is good for--your own anxiety burns your calories!). However, too much stimulation of the nervous system can lead to other issues, including memory loss, poor diet (i.e., not getting enough nutrients, vitamins, and minerals when eating solely at the appetizer table at a party), poor circulation, or exhaustion.
Air signs also lack patience (and commitment) to do intense long-term dieting. They don't like to be told what not to eat, or eliminate foods from their diet--it is too restrictive. For them, it is all about balance and moderation. Eat what you want, when you want it, but in healthy doses.
Foods to Eat: nuts, dairy, meat, seafood, yogurt, soothing herbs and teas, vegetables, salads, whole grains, multivitamin supplements
Foods to Avoid: refined sugars and carbs, rich cream sauces and dips, excess fruit
Suggested Diet Plan: The Zone, Daily Food Pyramid, Mediterranean Diet, European Diet (i.e., "French Women Don't Get Fat"), Weight Watchers
No matter which sign you are, you should always listen to your body and eat foods that you enjoy. If the foods you enjoy happen to be "bad" for you, consider eating them as treats or rewards, not as part of your daily or routine diet plan. Give yourself something to look forward to! As always, drink plenty of water, get a good night's rest, exercise frequently, take your daily multivitamin, and laugh. Laughter is a great source of mental, emotional, and physical stability and strength.
Web sites for recommended diet plans:
Atkins
Weight Watchers
South Beach
The Zone
Bob Greene's Diet Plan: The Best Life
Daily Food Pyramind
Jenny Craig
Glycemic Index
Nutrisystem
Sonoma Diet
Mediterranean Diet
French Women Don't Get Fat
Grapefruit Diet
Vegetarian or Vegan Diet
While I did not mention it in this post, if you are anti-astrology for your diet plan, consider the popular Eat Right For Your Blood Type diet by Dr. D'Adamo. This diet plan uses your blood type to determine your ideal diet, and has famous stars following it!
Special Note: none of the above recommendations should replace physician-approved or supervised diet plans, and are not intended to diagnose or prescribe an individual's diet. This blog is for informational and educational purposes only.
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How do you stay so thin?
Why can't I lose any weight?
I lose weight and then gain it all back!
I exercise all the time and I don't see any improvement!
I change diets all the time and can't stick to one!
I honestly don't have the time or motivation to lose weight...
And on, and on, and on.
We have heard them all, ranging from those lucky ones who seem to eat whatever they want, whenever they want it, without barely going to the gym, to those who struggle their entire life with weight issues. Even Oprah can't will the gods to help her lose weight--and keep it off. Kirstie Alley now has a new show coming out--Big Life--to publicize her diet and weight problems after infamously losing all her weight via Jenny Craig. All this proves that money can't necessarily buy a fast metabolism or a slender body, but it can help you get on the right track (or land a reality TV show).
But what about us "everyday people" who struggle and have tried it all and can't seem to make anything stick? And by "everyday", I mean those of us who aren't make $15 million per episode or don't have a famous personal trainer making house calls. How can we lose weight, and more importantly, why can't we stop gaining it? Well, the weight gain struggle leads itself to the obvious factors of genetics, health problems, thyroid complications that affect metabolism, lack of time to hit the gym, or lack of money to buy healthier food; but at the end of the day, if we aren't happy with the way we look when we check ourselves out in the mirror, doesn't everything else in our life look lackluster, depressing, or downright annoying?
Why do we wait so long before we make a positive change about something that is as important to us as our image?
Perhaps this post should have been written in January to motivate everyone to research their best weight loss plan in time for their New Year's Resolution, but, eh, deal with it. Better late than never, right? Which is what I say to everyone who is trying to figure it out: better late than never.
So where to begin? How to choose which diet, or types of food, you should eat when there are so many options of each? You probably see where this is going, right? Let's allow the Universe to make the decision up for us! Yes, I am talking about astrology. Eating right for your Sun sign. It may not work, but wouldn't it be worth a shot? Mercury isn't in retrograde until April 18, so you have time to plan and start a new regime before you experience any problems or delays. So get to it!
Your Personal Astrological Diet Plan
FIRE SIGNS (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius):
Fire signs tend to fight off illness easily as they have strong constitutions. Fire burns off toxins, bacteria and viruses, and due to their high levels of physical activity (in and out of the bedroom), they burn off weight faster than most signs. They love their carbs because they need them for energy to run their marathons, fight a battle, or absorb excess alcohol from their night out. HOWEVER, high stress levels, easily flared tempers, and over-working themselves makes them easy targets for heart conditions (such as hypertension), ulcers, and inflammations.
Fire signs also tend to lack patience, so a drawn-out diet that requires too much time or commitment, or shows results slowly, simply won't work. Fire signs need to see immediate progress, and need to feel as if they aren't eliminating anything from their diet in order to succeed at sticking to a plan.
Foods to Eat: grains, vegetables, seafood, pasta, lean meat and proteins, yogurt
Foods to Avoid: spicy foods, red meat, dairy
Suggested Diet Plans: Atkins, South Beach, Sonoma Diet, detox regimes (only to be used to flush their body of excess toxins, sodium, or water weight, not suggested for long-term diets)
EARTH SIGNS (Capricorn, Taurus, Virgo):
Earth signs have slow metabolisms and weak digestive systems, mostly due to over-eating or a diet of heavy foods. As such, Earth signs struggle with weight problems, tumor growth or glandular disorder. They often feel sluggish or tired, and can be found complaining about their fluctuating weight or inability to lose it. Working long hours in their office also makes it harder for them to eat sensible, well-balanced meals in favor of fast food, multiple snacking breaks, or rich fatty foods to keep their energy up (or to compensate for lost meals during the day). They need to find healthier sources of energy and sugar, and help their bodies flush out harmful toxins that they can't naturally break down on their own.
Foods to Eat: fruits, vegetables, juices, teas, salads, soups, spices, seafood, lean meat
Foods to Avoid: butter, sugar, processed foods (crackers, potato chips, popcorn, cookies), potatoes, excess carbs, fried foods, rich foods (fatty meats, cured meats, desserts, creamy cheeses)
Suggested Diet Plans: Glycemic Index, Jenny Craig, Weight Watchers, Grapefruit Diet(used only for a short detox, not as a full time diet plan), Vegetarian or Vegan diet
WATER SIGNS (Pisces, Cancer, Scorpio):
Water signs suffer more than the other elements from digestive issues, such as weak stomachs, poor metabolism, or intestinal problems. Since their health is directly related to their emotional state, they tend to get sick easily, especially if they are in a negative environment, or surrounded by negative people. By remaining in stagnant, emotional, murky waters, these signs suffer from recurring health issues and excess weight. Other notable problems that occur are health problems with excess mucus, cysts, tumors and swellings, as well as systemic candida.
For these signs, patience is less of a problem, and the real solution will come with a healthy, balanced lifestyle that includes a proper diet and frequent exercise, not a crash diet plan.
Foods to Eat: steamed vegetables, fresh seafood, beans and legumes, fruit, soups, salads, herbs, teas, hot water with lemon
Foods to Avoid: fried foods, meat, dairy, breads, salt, excess carbs, sodas, coffee or other high caffeine substances
Suggested Diet Plan: Vegetarian or Vegan, Bob Greene's Diet: The Best Life (focuses on the tie-in between emotions and eating habits), Sonoma Diet, Jenny Craig, Glycemic Index
AIR SIGNS (Gemini, Aquarius, Libra):
Air signs are the luckiest of the elements when it comes to losing weight, or never having to worry about weight to begin with (for the most part; Aquarius Oprah would take issue with me on this!). Their high nervous energy tends to direct them in fast-paced lifestyles, social activities, and high metabolisms (something that anxiety and high stress is good for--your own anxiety burns your calories!). However, too much stimulation of the nervous system can lead to other issues, including memory loss, poor diet (i.e., not getting enough nutrients, vitamins, and minerals when eating solely at the appetizer table at a party), poor circulation, or exhaustion.
Air signs also lack patience (and commitment) to do intense long-term dieting. They don't like to be told what not to eat, or eliminate foods from their diet--it is too restrictive. For them, it is all about balance and moderation. Eat what you want, when you want it, but in healthy doses.
Foods to Eat: nuts, dairy, meat, seafood, yogurt, soothing herbs and teas, vegetables, salads, whole grains, multivitamin supplements
Foods to Avoid: refined sugars and carbs, rich cream sauces and dips, excess fruit
Suggested Diet Plan: The Zone, Daily Food Pyramid, Mediterranean Diet, European Diet (i.e., "French Women Don't Get Fat"), Weight Watchers
No matter which sign you are, you should always listen to your body and eat foods that you enjoy. If the foods you enjoy happen to be "bad" for you, consider eating them as treats or rewards, not as part of your daily or routine diet plan. Give yourself something to look forward to! As always, drink plenty of water, get a good night's rest, exercise frequently, take your daily multivitamin, and laugh. Laughter is a great source of mental, emotional, and physical stability and strength.
Web sites for recommended diet plans:
Atkins
Weight Watchers
South Beach
The Zone
Bob Greene's Diet Plan: The Best Life
Daily Food Pyramind
Jenny Craig
Glycemic Index
Nutrisystem
Sonoma Diet
Mediterranean Diet
French Women Don't Get Fat
Grapefruit Diet
Vegetarian or Vegan Diet
While I did not mention it in this post, if you are anti-astrology for your diet plan, consider the popular Eat Right For Your Blood Type diet by Dr. D'Adamo. This diet plan uses your blood type to determine your ideal diet, and has famous stars following it!
Special Note: none of the above recommendations should replace physician-approved or supervised diet plans, and are not intended to diagnose or prescribe an individual's diet. This blog is for informational and educational purposes only.
Next Up: Summer Lovin', Had Me Some Fun...
Friday, February 19, 2010
Love is in the Air, Amongst Other Things
Happy Belated Valentine's Day to all my readers! I hope Cupid's arrow hit you -- in a good way -- and that your beloved showered you with flowers, chocolates, and kisses to celebrate Hallmark's favorite holiday.
Moving along -- momentarily, for we shall return to Valentine's Day per the title of this post -- I also want to bring to everyone's attention the exciting fact that we are now officially in the Chinese New Year, Year of the Tiger. While this blog doesn't focus much on Eastern astrology, I did find a great site that compared Western vs Eastern astrology, and also combined them for a more relevant horoscope for the year ahead, and in general terms for the rest of your life (!!). For example, if you are a Gemini Cock or a Leo Monkey, you can read all about what that means to you by clicking here.
OK, now let's get back on track to the topic of this post. We should all be in a better mood right now because we just had a romantic holiday, Chinese New Year has begun (and the Tiger is a lucky year!), Mercury is NOT in retrograde (next up is April 18-May 11), and Spring starts in exactly one month on March 20th. All good things, right?
Well, almost all -- if you had a lonely Valentine's Day and found yourself spending it alone in your apartment with your pet cat, dog, fish, or rat, then maybe this hasn't been a stellar year for you as of yet. And maybe, upon further consideration, it hasn't been a stellar year for you in a long time. Valentine's Day is overrated after all, right? Who needs a teddy bear holding a heart, or a box of fattening chocolates, or an expensive dinner at a crowded restaurant, right? Right?
But, still, it would be nice to have a Valentine. You may be wondering "Why are you writing a blog about a holiday that has already passed?" Well, the reason is simple. If you are the typical single person who is desperately-seeking-love (some of us more desperate than others), Valentine's is not just a DAY of torture, it is more like a lesson in torture on repeat (like Groundhog's Day). There is the pre-Valentine's Day recognition that you don't have anyone special in your life, and this makes you bitter when you look around and see all the Valentine's Day promotions, happy couples kissing and talking about their special plans, and people buying clothes in the color red; then there is the actual Valentine's Day, where we dread the fact that no one is sending us flowers to the office or kissing us goodnight; and then there is the post-Valentine's Day acknowledgment that you just spent another Valentine's Day all alone and you don't want to be alone anymore and you REFUSE to be single for next year's Valentine's Day. This last acknowledgment can linger anywhere from one day (if you are super evolved and enjoy being single), to one week (if you are super social and meet someone within said week), to one month (if you are super annoyed with the dating scene), to one season (if you are super frustrated with the dating scene), to one year or more (if you are super fed up with dating -- period).
What is NOT super is not doing anything about it! I know it is hard to meet someone, but, unless you are living a personal version of The Truman Show, whereby your life is scripted by a Hollywood director, and we are now at the part that says "Cue: Enter perfect soul mate into scene...and ACTION!" our perfect someone isn't going to just appear out of nowhere. Unless, of course, you have some really "super" drugs that give you some interesting hallucinations...
That being said, I thought that in the spirit of positive thinking, this would be the perfect time to list all of the currently popular online dating sites, AND, give you a little food for thought on where to go to meet someone that is astrologically compatible to you.
Earth Signs (Capricorn, Taurus, Virgo):
These signs are the workaholics and the foodies. If you want to meet one, either start trolling the halls of your office (late at night), hit up a restaurant that is popular with the locals (Earth signs prefer traditional spots rather than the appeal of the 'latest and greatest'), or wander a bit longer in the aisles of the grocery store. I particularly love the last one because then you can eliminate people with food aversions (like, if you are a vegetarian, perhaps not best to pick someone up at the butcher's counter?). If neither works, go to the gym. Earth signs are always there burning off excess stress.
Air Signs (Aquarius, Gemini, Libra):
These signs are always throwing back a cocktail at a bar or restaurant, involved in some sort of event or social function, or shopping. Basically, you can find your Air sign if you are out and about and happen to come upon someone who can't stop talking and who is animatedly discussing some piece of gossip, or recent news development (i.e., Tiger Woods, the Tea Party Coalition, Iran's nuclear weapons, or Heidi Montag's recent surgeries). They are the easy ones to find because they don't sit at their desks for too long and are often in a sales or marketing function that allows them to constantly be meeting new people. So, in short, they want to meet YOU. What are you waiting for?
Water Signs (Pisces, Cancer, Scorpio):
These signs are always researching, learning, or studying something new, whether it is for personal or professional reasons, or they are too busy beating an opponent on the field or in the office. Go to a library, a coffee shop, a bookstore, a sports center, an animal shelter, a yoga or Pilate's class, or a political campaign headquarter. They will be there. If you live in DC, this is a bonus for you because all you really need to do is go to the Hill or Eastern Market, that way you can find those Water signs that pride themselves on being artistic and creative (Eastern Market) while at the same time being a political brainiac (Capitol Hill). If you don't live in DC, go hit up a bike trail or join a running club. If you don't "do" exercise, just go to a furniture store (like Pottery Barn) and seek out the people buying candles or pillows. Yep, they are probably a Water sign. Of course, you could just go for the obvious and go to the beach or any large body of water...
Fire Signs (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius):
These signs are always in the middle of everything -- a bar, a restaurant, a fight, a liquor store, a gym, a sports club, a kitchen, a department store, a beauty counter, a police station, and so on. They are easy to spot: loud, slightly obnoxious, but ever so fun and entertaining! You can always find a Fire sign because they never really do the "stay at home" routine. So, as long as you have something compelling, blunt, sassy, and witty to say, you are pretty much guaranteed to find your typical Fire sign. If you need a little more direction (what, North, South, East, West doesn't cut it?), I suggest joining a foreign language class (Fire signs love languages), going to the latest restaurant or bar opening (unlike Earth signs, the Fire signs love trying new places), or joining some sort of sports club or group exercise class at your local gym. Fire signs need to burn off all the calories from their partying!
And, if you still feel a little lost, here are links to the top dating sites right now:
OkCupid
Match.com
eHarmony
Chemistry.com
JDate
Plenty of Fish
Craigs List
SugarDaddie
Washington Post's Date Lab
Good luck to your heart!
Next Up: Keeping Your Heart Healthy
Moving along -- momentarily, for we shall return to Valentine's Day per the title of this post -- I also want to bring to everyone's attention the exciting fact that we are now officially in the Chinese New Year, Year of the Tiger. While this blog doesn't focus much on Eastern astrology, I did find a great site that compared Western vs Eastern astrology, and also combined them for a more relevant horoscope for the year ahead, and in general terms for the rest of your life (!!). For example, if you are a Gemini Cock or a Leo Monkey, you can read all about what that means to you by clicking here.
OK, now let's get back on track to the topic of this post. We should all be in a better mood right now because we just had a romantic holiday, Chinese New Year has begun (and the Tiger is a lucky year!), Mercury is NOT in retrograde (next up is April 18-May 11), and Spring starts in exactly one month on March 20th. All good things, right?
Well, almost all -- if you had a lonely Valentine's Day and found yourself spending it alone in your apartment with your pet cat, dog, fish, or rat, then maybe this hasn't been a stellar year for you as of yet. And maybe, upon further consideration, it hasn't been a stellar year for you in a long time. Valentine's Day is overrated after all, right? Who needs a teddy bear holding a heart, or a box of fattening chocolates, or an expensive dinner at a crowded restaurant, right? Right?
But, still, it would be nice to have a Valentine. You may be wondering "Why are you writing a blog about a holiday that has already passed?" Well, the reason is simple. If you are the typical single person who is desperately-seeking-love (some of us more desperate than others), Valentine's is not just a DAY of torture, it is more like a lesson in torture on repeat (like Groundhog's Day). There is the pre-Valentine's Day recognition that you don't have anyone special in your life, and this makes you bitter when you look around and see all the Valentine's Day promotions, happy couples kissing and talking about their special plans, and people buying clothes in the color red; then there is the actual Valentine's Day, where we dread the fact that no one is sending us flowers to the office or kissing us goodnight; and then there is the post-Valentine's Day acknowledgment that you just spent another Valentine's Day all alone and you don't want to be alone anymore and you REFUSE to be single for next year's Valentine's Day. This last acknowledgment can linger anywhere from one day (if you are super evolved and enjoy being single), to one week (if you are super social and meet someone within said week), to one month (if you are super annoyed with the dating scene), to one season (if you are super frustrated with the dating scene), to one year or more (if you are super fed up with dating -- period).
What is NOT super is not doing anything about it! I know it is hard to meet someone, but, unless you are living a personal version of The Truman Show, whereby your life is scripted by a Hollywood director, and we are now at the part that says "Cue: Enter perfect soul mate into scene...and ACTION!" our perfect someone isn't going to just appear out of nowhere. Unless, of course, you have some really "super" drugs that give you some interesting hallucinations...
That being said, I thought that in the spirit of positive thinking, this would be the perfect time to list all of the currently popular online dating sites, AND, give you a little food for thought on where to go to meet someone that is astrologically compatible to you.
Earth Signs (Capricorn, Taurus, Virgo):
These signs are the workaholics and the foodies. If you want to meet one, either start trolling the halls of your office (late at night), hit up a restaurant that is popular with the locals (Earth signs prefer traditional spots rather than the appeal of the 'latest and greatest'), or wander a bit longer in the aisles of the grocery store. I particularly love the last one because then you can eliminate people with food aversions (like, if you are a vegetarian, perhaps not best to pick someone up at the butcher's counter?). If neither works, go to the gym. Earth signs are always there burning off excess stress.
Air Signs (Aquarius, Gemini, Libra):
These signs are always throwing back a cocktail at a bar or restaurant, involved in some sort of event or social function, or shopping. Basically, you can find your Air sign if you are out and about and happen to come upon someone who can't stop talking and who is animatedly discussing some piece of gossip, or recent news development (i.e., Tiger Woods, the Tea Party Coalition, Iran's nuclear weapons, or Heidi Montag's recent surgeries). They are the easy ones to find because they don't sit at their desks for too long and are often in a sales or marketing function that allows them to constantly be meeting new people. So, in short, they want to meet YOU. What are you waiting for?
Water Signs (Pisces, Cancer, Scorpio):
These signs are always researching, learning, or studying something new, whether it is for personal or professional reasons, or they are too busy beating an opponent on the field or in the office. Go to a library, a coffee shop, a bookstore, a sports center, an animal shelter, a yoga or Pilate's class, or a political campaign headquarter. They will be there. If you live in DC, this is a bonus for you because all you really need to do is go to the Hill or Eastern Market, that way you can find those Water signs that pride themselves on being artistic and creative (Eastern Market) while at the same time being a political brainiac (Capitol Hill). If you don't live in DC, go hit up a bike trail or join a running club. If you don't "do" exercise, just go to a furniture store (like Pottery Barn) and seek out the people buying candles or pillows. Yep, they are probably a Water sign. Of course, you could just go for the obvious and go to the beach or any large body of water...
Fire Signs (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius):
These signs are always in the middle of everything -- a bar, a restaurant, a fight, a liquor store, a gym, a sports club, a kitchen, a department store, a beauty counter, a police station, and so on. They are easy to spot: loud, slightly obnoxious, but ever so fun and entertaining! You can always find a Fire sign because they never really do the "stay at home" routine. So, as long as you have something compelling, blunt, sassy, and witty to say, you are pretty much guaranteed to find your typical Fire sign. If you need a little more direction (what, North, South, East, West doesn't cut it?), I suggest joining a foreign language class (Fire signs love languages), going to the latest restaurant or bar opening (unlike Earth signs, the Fire signs love trying new places), or joining some sort of sports club or group exercise class at your local gym. Fire signs need to burn off all the calories from their partying!
And, if you still feel a little lost, here are links to the top dating sites right now:
OkCupid
Match.com
eHarmony
Chemistry.com
JDate
Plenty of Fish
Craigs List
SugarDaddie
Washington Post's Date Lab
Good luck to your heart!
Next Up: Keeping Your Heart Healthy
Thursday, January 21, 2010
A Healthy Point of View
Now that 2010 has officially begun, I am sure many of you have written down your new year resolutions, right? Surely your "to-do" list will include the typical following goals: lose weight, eat healthier, budget better, date more (or less), and take a vacation. I bet you can't wait to cross any/all of those items off your list once you are done with them!
I bet you signed up for a new gym membership, threw out the junk food in your kitchen, bought organic/healthier foods last week at the grocery store, cleaned your home, decided to cut out extravagances and spend more time at home, and signed up on eHarmony or some other dating site all in an effort to start this new calendar year on the right foot. Of course, some of you may use the excuse that Mercury was in retrograde until only last Friday (and boy, was it a bitch of a retro!!!), so you haven't had time to write a list when your computer broken down or caught on fire, your phone kirked out, your boss fired you, or your plane got diverted and you were stuck at the airport for hours. Mercury definitely put a damper on our progress at the start of this month, that's for sure! But that's behind us now.
So, moving on...
I would find it hard to believe that there is a perfect person out there who doesn't have anything to work on or improve this year, but let's play the game of "what if" and think about it. What if things were perfect? What if you accomplished all of your goals in 2009 and this is a year of smooth sailing for you? (Note: I would like to talk with you if you are reading this and saying "That's me! That's me!") What would you do to already capitalize on perfection? Would you invest all your time in working? Playing? Traveling?
More and more, I keep hearing people who are dissatisfied with their lives, who don't know what they want to do, or, they do know what they want to do, but they are too afraid to pursue it. Fear of change, fear of the unknown, fear of the loss of security, fear of being laughed at, or just plain fear of failure hinders our progress. So much FEAR stunts us from living our lives. If we believe the Mayan theory that the world will end in 2012, then we better just go ahead and do whatever we want--two years isn't too long to live in regret if things turn sour! And if you succeed, hey, it was great to go out with a bang! (No pun intended to the Mayans, there.)
But I am a firm believer that the Mayans weren't referring to the end of the world physically, I think they meant the end of the world at its current level of spiritual and emotional understanding. We see evidence in the news, in our politics, and in our daily routines that we are tired of the way our systems are working, we are evolving past the idea of religious beliefs and into the concept of "spiritual beliefs", we are inspired by people who promote peace and change (His Holiness the Dalai Lama, for example), and we are quickly disappointed with agents of war, terror, and failure, which is how we have operated in the past.
And yet, we still cling to the old way of doing things.
In 2009, we historically voted in the first black president because he promised change in Washington. At exactly one year after his Inauguration, we find ourselves criticizing his policies and denying the change that Washington is creating (or trying to create). His approval ratings continue to dip, and each new election is showing a trend that the American people are turning their back on Obama and his party in favor of a more conservative/no change approach.
So what do we REALLY want? Do we really want change? Or do we really want security, even if security is not the healthiest choice for us? As the saying goes--"The devil that you know is better than the devil that you don't know." Regardless of political orientation, our country is in the midst of a significant moral, spiritual, ethical, and physical debate about where we go from here. And this is what, I believe, the Mayans were referring to when they said the world would end in 2012. We can't sustain the current status quo. The past decade of war, terror, violence, debt, and fear have proven that our old methods aren't sustainable for much longer.
We can't say we want one thing, and then act in another contrary manner. It is time we open our eyes, hearts, and minds, and honestly evaluate ourselves. What are our true goals? Priorities? Needs? Do we talk the talk, but fear walking the walk?
Consider these thoughts when thinking about 2010 and beyond. What resolutions can you include to make this world a better place? To be on the positive side of change? Ghandi said "You must be the change you wish to see in the world." How do you see yourself in that statement?
Perhaps this post is perfect timing, as it is not only a new year, but also the beginning of Aquarius, a sign that is motivated by improvements in society, debating current policies and politics, and forging bold ideas to make the world a better place. Think outside of the box, even if that box is comfortable, or people don't agree with your views. Voice them and see who listens. Some of the most influential/notorious people in this country have been/are Aquarians--Abraham Lincoln, Ronald Reagan, Oprah Winfrey, Franklin D. Roosevelt, Charles Darwin, Ayn Rand, Jimmy Hoffa, Glenn Beck, Sarah Palin, Bill Maher, and so on. Bold new ideas, a drive to improve humanity, a unique way to empower man are common threads in this famous group of Aquarians, regardless of whether you agree with their opinions or political bias.
By all means, put down the typical new year resolutions (and stick to them past March!), but also take a page from the book of Aquarius and jot down some new ideas that are far "bigger in picture" and more selfless. Consider volunteering, donating money to Haiti or another relief fund, voting more often or campaigning for a candidate you believe in, organizing a community program, etc. Consider taking a risk and following your dreams, rather than make up excuses as to why you can't change.
See what happens if you create something bigger than yourself this year.
Next Up: Love is in the Air, Amongst Other Things
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I bet you signed up for a new gym membership, threw out the junk food in your kitchen, bought organic/healthier foods last week at the grocery store, cleaned your home, decided to cut out extravagances and spend more time at home, and signed up on eHarmony or some other dating site all in an effort to start this new calendar year on the right foot. Of course, some of you may use the excuse that Mercury was in retrograde until only last Friday (and boy, was it a bitch of a retro!!!), so you haven't had time to write a list when your computer broken down or caught on fire, your phone kirked out, your boss fired you, or your plane got diverted and you were stuck at the airport for hours. Mercury definitely put a damper on our progress at the start of this month, that's for sure! But that's behind us now.
So, moving on...
I would find it hard to believe that there is a perfect person out there who doesn't have anything to work on or improve this year, but let's play the game of "what if" and think about it. What if things were perfect? What if you accomplished all of your goals in 2009 and this is a year of smooth sailing for you? (Note: I would like to talk with you if you are reading this and saying "That's me! That's me!") What would you do to already capitalize on perfection? Would you invest all your time in working? Playing? Traveling?
More and more, I keep hearing people who are dissatisfied with their lives, who don't know what they want to do, or, they do know what they want to do, but they are too afraid to pursue it. Fear of change, fear of the unknown, fear of the loss of security, fear of being laughed at, or just plain fear of failure hinders our progress. So much FEAR stunts us from living our lives. If we believe the Mayan theory that the world will end in 2012, then we better just go ahead and do whatever we want--two years isn't too long to live in regret if things turn sour! And if you succeed, hey, it was great to go out with a bang! (No pun intended to the Mayans, there.)
But I am a firm believer that the Mayans weren't referring to the end of the world physically, I think they meant the end of the world at its current level of spiritual and emotional understanding. We see evidence in the news, in our politics, and in our daily routines that we are tired of the way our systems are working, we are evolving past the idea of religious beliefs and into the concept of "spiritual beliefs", we are inspired by people who promote peace and change (His Holiness the Dalai Lama, for example), and we are quickly disappointed with agents of war, terror, and failure, which is how we have operated in the past.
And yet, we still cling to the old way of doing things.
In 2009, we historically voted in the first black president because he promised change in Washington. At exactly one year after his Inauguration, we find ourselves criticizing his policies and denying the change that Washington is creating (or trying to create). His approval ratings continue to dip, and each new election is showing a trend that the American people are turning their back on Obama and his party in favor of a more conservative/no change approach.
So what do we REALLY want? Do we really want change? Or do we really want security, even if security is not the healthiest choice for us? As the saying goes--"The devil that you know is better than the devil that you don't know." Regardless of political orientation, our country is in the midst of a significant moral, spiritual, ethical, and physical debate about where we go from here. And this is what, I believe, the Mayans were referring to when they said the world would end in 2012. We can't sustain the current status quo. The past decade of war, terror, violence, debt, and fear have proven that our old methods aren't sustainable for much longer.
We can't say we want one thing, and then act in another contrary manner. It is time we open our eyes, hearts, and minds, and honestly evaluate ourselves. What are our true goals? Priorities? Needs? Do we talk the talk, but fear walking the walk?
Consider these thoughts when thinking about 2010 and beyond. What resolutions can you include to make this world a better place? To be on the positive side of change? Ghandi said "You must be the change you wish to see in the world." How do you see yourself in that statement?
Perhaps this post is perfect timing, as it is not only a new year, but also the beginning of Aquarius, a sign that is motivated by improvements in society, debating current policies and politics, and forging bold ideas to make the world a better place. Think outside of the box, even if that box is comfortable, or people don't agree with your views. Voice them and see who listens. Some of the most influential/notorious people in this country have been/are Aquarians--Abraham Lincoln, Ronald Reagan, Oprah Winfrey, Franklin D. Roosevelt, Charles Darwin, Ayn Rand, Jimmy Hoffa, Glenn Beck, Sarah Palin, Bill Maher, and so on. Bold new ideas, a drive to improve humanity, a unique way to empower man are common threads in this famous group of Aquarians, regardless of whether you agree with their opinions or political bias.
By all means, put down the typical new year resolutions (and stick to them past March!), but also take a page from the book of Aquarius and jot down some new ideas that are far "bigger in picture" and more selfless. Consider volunteering, donating money to Haiti or another relief fund, voting more often or campaigning for a candidate you believe in, organizing a community program, etc. Consider taking a risk and following your dreams, rather than make up excuses as to why you can't change.
See what happens if you create something bigger than yourself this year.
Next Up: Love is in the Air, Amongst Other Things
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Tuesday, December 22, 2009
The Planetary Wrap-Up: 2009 Annual Review and a 2010 Sneak Peek
And so another year comes to a close. News reports are already polling people throughout the country as to what they think of the 2000s, and whether they have positive, negative, or neutral feelings about Y2K's infancy years. According to the Wall Street Journal, 58% of Americans polled said that the first decade of the 2000s was "awful" or "not so good", and 29% said it was "fair", with only a slim 12% saying it was "good" or "great". Click here to read the article and polling in its entirety.
So, based on those numbers, we have a lot of positive thinking to do! With the first decade behind us, we are now progressing from our baby, toddler, and early years of 2000, to our teenage years. Yikes!
When looking back on 2009 (or the entire decade, if you wish), ask yourself what went wrong, what went right, and how you could have made it better. I think it is also important to take stock of how you did it exactly right. What are you grateful for? What happened that made you a stronger, wiser, happier, and better person? What did you specifically do to change your destiny for the better? If we focus too much on the negative, isn't that an ominous start to 2010?
2009 was a 2-year in numerology (2+0+0+9=11=1+1=2), or, an 11-year if you prefer to use the master number (remember, numerology has 3 master numbers: 11, 22, and 33). The 11 master number (or 2) is about spirituality, connecting to the Universe, inspiring progress and change, and building relationships with others. Typically, the energy of the year begins a couple of months prior to the close of the previous year. With Obama's election in November 2008, we definitely saw the wheels of the 11-year master number gearing up for its arrival in 2009. Watching how the world communicated and built relationships in 2009 (for better or worse), or how our own Washington political parties coordinated to work on new bills and initiatives, tested the power and strength of this 11-year. Everyone realized they had to work together, and those that wanted to fight that energy found themselves in some deep trouble.
2010 will be a 3-year in numerology (2+0+1+0=12=1+2=3). A 3-year can be one of great success, where things tend to move a lot more smoothly, laughter tends to come along more easily, and balance is quickly attainable -- as long as you don't delude your perception of reality vs fiction. In a 3-year, we must learn to decipher what is real from what is fake, what is honest from what is not, and apply the lessons we learned in our 2-year to make our 3-year blessed. Our 3-year has great potential for success, as long as we are realistic and optimistic about how we get there.
And what is YOUR own numerology number for 2010? My favorite site for numerology is Christine DeLorey's Creative Numerology (See www.creativenumerology.com). Check out her yearly life cycle page by clicking here, and read all about what 2010 will have in store for you. After all, how can you draft your new year's resolutions without any insight as to what to expect?
Be sure to also check into when your ruling planet goes retrograde next year, so you can plan in advance for your red circle calendar days/weeks/months. Click here for a listing and brief summary, or here for a quick overview.
But, let's be fair to 2009. After all, we still have 9 days left! Did you feel you moved with the flow, or did you go against the current? How did your year compare to those of your astrological peers?
Capricorn: 2009 shifted your work schedules and priorities. Many of you were financially strained from either a reduction in work hours, or just a reduction in force. You may have been laid off, or you may have quit or reduced your own hours voluntarily. Either way, 2009 brought changes for you on the work front. Since Capricorns don't enjoy change (they say they do, but they don't) and find it hard to leave security/comfort, this may have caused a lot of anxiety for most of you, which translated into some health issues. Make sure that in 2010 you take better care of your body, and also focus on how your career can make you happier.
Aquarius: you worked very, very hard in 2009. Many of you received new jobs or promotions, and they definitely were for the best! After all, Jupiter (the planet of luck and good fortune) was in your sign this year (and will remain so until January 17, 2010). But with new responsibilities came a lot of pressure, demands, and sacrifices. You know it was all worth it, but damn, you need a break! Aquarians tend to be workaholics, notably because they work on issues that they strongly believe in, so they don't know when to quit, or HOW to quit. No need to think of quitting, but maybe just a short vacation to clear out the mental clutter is necessary.
Pisces: while you are always an emotional roller coaster, this year was a fast and furious ride for most of you. Again, many new changes (new job, new home, new zip code, new boyfriend/girlfriend, new engagement/marriage, new baby, etc) came your way, and you had to adapt. Most of you experienced setbacks before success came along, and even though those setbacks were heart-breaking, you are now looking around with a small smile on your face thinking that things didn't turn out so badly after all. And the even better news is that this good luck should continue to stay with you, because Jupiter will be moving into your sign on January 18, 2010, and bringing his bag of treats for YOU in the year to come.
Aries: drama drama drama. You were really pissed off this year with work, co-workers, bosses, and regulations. People got on your very last nerve, and if you didn't outright have a breakdown or quit, you came darn close to it. Most of you sucked it up and kept quiet until you couldn't take it anymore, but were pleasantly surprised to have found out that when you DID speak your mind, you got results. Great! The sad thing is that people really disappointed you this year, including your romantic partners. You started seeing life in a whole new picture--one that isn't discolored with rose-tinted designer sunglasses. Work out your anger in 2010 and channel it into more positive energy.
Taurus: you are feeling like one cool cat right now. You got your man/woman, you got your attitude in check, and you got your business running. Things aren't that bad right now. Some of you made some significant moves in your career or homes (or both), but you haven't been this happy and self-assured of your decisions in a long time. For those that aren't entirely happy yet, you are beginning to see the light at the end of the tunnel. 2010 should be promising if you keep up that positive attitude, and continue to let go of the addictions you held onto in the past.
Gemini: it could be better, it could be worse. Many of you found inspiration in your current career and really started getting into your passions and goals. You really buckled down this year and thought about what would make you happy. A lot of you started a new romantic relationship, or strengthened your current one, and things are going pretty well with your SO! Perhaps 2010 will bring an engagement, or a more solid commitment. Your goal for 2010 will be to follow through on the commitments you made to yourself and others in 2009, and, if 2009 wasn't entirely what you wanted it to be, put in the hard work in 2010 to make things right.
Cancer: those emotional waters run deep, strong, and mighty with you, and 2009 was no exception. With all the changes happening in the Universe, you were keenly aware of all the shifts occurring around you. Shifts in everything from people's moods, to the economic climate, to the political status of the world. You worried a lot more than normal, and felt frustrated more than usual. Deep breathes. Stress isn't good for your health, and isn't going to get you anywhere fast (other than a doctor's office). You have felt frustrated that things haven't gone your way, or that you didn't have the power to change things you didn't like, but patience, dear little Crab. After all, you always get what you want, one way or another!
Leo: there is a saying that says "if you are going through Hell, keep on going." You Leos out there are smiling (however bitterly or ironic as it may be) reading that line because you know where I am heading with this. Leos had a tough time in 2009. A lot of work, a lot of stress, and a lot of setbacks (emotional, physical, mental) really wrecked havoc with your sense of stability and security. Most of you were continually beaten with bad news, especially regarding your loved one. Many of you broke up with your SO, or nearly got there, and felt frustrated with your love lives. Your finances were tight, and you just felt very overwhelmed by things. But you are a fighter, and you will persevere. You are great at making yourself #1, so go ahead and do just that in 2010 and see what great results you may reap.
Virgo: it's not a hidden secret that Virgos are complex and hard to understand. Your mind is an intricate labyrinth of ideas and emotions that not even you know how to clearly navigate. One moment you feel one way, the next moment you feel entirely different. This year found you working hard (as usual), focusing less on family and friendships, and more on your romantic relationships. Most Virgos settled down this year, or wanted to settle down badly. They found themselves in new relationships or engagements, and if they didn't, they dated a lot of frogs to get their reward. 2009 was all about finding an SO for the majority of Virgos out there. And the good news is that it worked. Many Virgos have ended 2009 in a stable (or what they consider to be stable) relationship. Finally. Try not to over-analyze it and just ENJOY love in 2010. For the few Virgos out there that didn't find love in 2010, then it is probably because your work was your mistress. So, try to balance the scales in 2010 and shift gears towards love. You really don't do well when you are single or alone, despite what you may think.
Libra: 2009 was an interesting year when it came to family for most Libras out there. They felt unsatisfied with their current partner, and if single, they started wondering if they really even wanted a partner in their life. Libras did a lot of soul searching in general. They started asking themselves some serious questions: have a child, or not? get married, or not? stay single, or not? change jobs, or not? It's been interesting to say the least. I think the key issue is that Libras have felt the need for change, and they can't quite decide yet what they want that change to be. All they know is that there is a glimmer of discontent underneath that smile of theirs, and they are struggling to figure out where it comes from and how to change it. Use 2010 to the best of your advantage!
Scorpio: yours is a sign of transformation, and in 2009, you sure as hell lived up to your potential. Many of you focused on new beginnings and moved to a new town, traveled extensively, or decided to embark on a different sort of journey--the spiritual kind. Either way, whether it was mental, spiritual, or physical, all Scorpios took some sort of journey this year to figure out their lives and what would make them happier. And many of you are slowly but surely getting there. You aren't quite fulfilled yet, you still have some kinks to work through, but like the tortoise in the fairy tale...slow and steady wins the race.
Sagittarius: most Sag's had a lot of things going on for them this year. The majority went through a potent break-up in the first half of the year, and then found themselves in a new one by the 2nd half. This new relationship has brought them more happiness than they could have dreamed, but not necessarily the type they ever thought of having. You are in what is considered to be an unconventional relationship at this point in your life, but it is working for you for now. The fact is, the majority of you Sag's out there are evenly split down the middle as to whether your work, or your personal life, need to be #1. Both need some significant work to be done, but you just can't decide which should come first. You are all pretty much ready to quit your job and move on to the next best thing, and you should start putting your feelers out there. You aren't being challenged anymore, you are just feeling abused and annoyed by your coworkers or staff. And quite frankly, you are bored and tired and frustrated with everything. You feel ready for your next adventure...but where to? 2010 will give you 365 new calendar days to plan it.
Next Up: A Healthy Point of View
So, based on those numbers, we have a lot of positive thinking to do! With the first decade behind us, we are now progressing from our baby, toddler, and early years of 2000, to our teenage years. Yikes!
When looking back on 2009 (or the entire decade, if you wish), ask yourself what went wrong, what went right, and how you could have made it better. I think it is also important to take stock of how you did it exactly right. What are you grateful for? What happened that made you a stronger, wiser, happier, and better person? What did you specifically do to change your destiny for the better? If we focus too much on the negative, isn't that an ominous start to 2010?
2009 was a 2-year in numerology (2+0+0+9=11=1+1=2), or, an 11-year if you prefer to use the master number (remember, numerology has 3 master numbers: 11, 22, and 33). The 11 master number (or 2) is about spirituality, connecting to the Universe, inspiring progress and change, and building relationships with others. Typically, the energy of the year begins a couple of months prior to the close of the previous year. With Obama's election in November 2008, we definitely saw the wheels of the 11-year master number gearing up for its arrival in 2009. Watching how the world communicated and built relationships in 2009 (for better or worse), or how our own Washington political parties coordinated to work on new bills and initiatives, tested the power and strength of this 11-year. Everyone realized they had to work together, and those that wanted to fight that energy found themselves in some deep trouble.
2010 will be a 3-year in numerology (2+0+1+0=12=1+2=3). A 3-year can be one of great success, where things tend to move a lot more smoothly, laughter tends to come along more easily, and balance is quickly attainable -- as long as you don't delude your perception of reality vs fiction. In a 3-year, we must learn to decipher what is real from what is fake, what is honest from what is not, and apply the lessons we learned in our 2-year to make our 3-year blessed. Our 3-year has great potential for success, as long as we are realistic and optimistic about how we get there.
And what is YOUR own numerology number for 2010? My favorite site for numerology is Christine DeLorey's Creative Numerology (See www.creativenumerology.com). Check out her yearly life cycle page by clicking here, and read all about what 2010 will have in store for you. After all, how can you draft your new year's resolutions without any insight as to what to expect?
Be sure to also check into when your ruling planet goes retrograde next year, so you can plan in advance for your red circle calendar days/weeks/months. Click here for a listing and brief summary, or here for a quick overview.
But, let's be fair to 2009. After all, we still have 9 days left! Did you feel you moved with the flow, or did you go against the current? How did your year compare to those of your astrological peers?
Capricorn: 2009 shifted your work schedules and priorities. Many of you were financially strained from either a reduction in work hours, or just a reduction in force. You may have been laid off, or you may have quit or reduced your own hours voluntarily. Either way, 2009 brought changes for you on the work front. Since Capricorns don't enjoy change (they say they do, but they don't) and find it hard to leave security/comfort, this may have caused a lot of anxiety for most of you, which translated into some health issues. Make sure that in 2010 you take better care of your body, and also focus on how your career can make you happier.
Aquarius: you worked very, very hard in 2009. Many of you received new jobs or promotions, and they definitely were for the best! After all, Jupiter (the planet of luck and good fortune) was in your sign this year (and will remain so until January 17, 2010). But with new responsibilities came a lot of pressure, demands, and sacrifices. You know it was all worth it, but damn, you need a break! Aquarians tend to be workaholics, notably because they work on issues that they strongly believe in, so they don't know when to quit, or HOW to quit. No need to think of quitting, but maybe just a short vacation to clear out the mental clutter is necessary.
Pisces: while you are always an emotional roller coaster, this year was a fast and furious ride for most of you. Again, many new changes (new job, new home, new zip code, new boyfriend/girlfriend, new engagement/marriage, new baby, etc) came your way, and you had to adapt. Most of you experienced setbacks before success came along, and even though those setbacks were heart-breaking, you are now looking around with a small smile on your face thinking that things didn't turn out so badly after all. And the even better news is that this good luck should continue to stay with you, because Jupiter will be moving into your sign on January 18, 2010, and bringing his bag of treats for YOU in the year to come.
Aries: drama drama drama. You were really pissed off this year with work, co-workers, bosses, and regulations. People got on your very last nerve, and if you didn't outright have a breakdown or quit, you came darn close to it. Most of you sucked it up and kept quiet until you couldn't take it anymore, but were pleasantly surprised to have found out that when you DID speak your mind, you got results. Great! The sad thing is that people really disappointed you this year, including your romantic partners. You started seeing life in a whole new picture--one that isn't discolored with rose-tinted designer sunglasses. Work out your anger in 2010 and channel it into more positive energy.
Taurus: you are feeling like one cool cat right now. You got your man/woman, you got your attitude in check, and you got your business running. Things aren't that bad right now. Some of you made some significant moves in your career or homes (or both), but you haven't been this happy and self-assured of your decisions in a long time. For those that aren't entirely happy yet, you are beginning to see the light at the end of the tunnel. 2010 should be promising if you keep up that positive attitude, and continue to let go of the addictions you held onto in the past.
Gemini: it could be better, it could be worse. Many of you found inspiration in your current career and really started getting into your passions and goals. You really buckled down this year and thought about what would make you happy. A lot of you started a new romantic relationship, or strengthened your current one, and things are going pretty well with your SO! Perhaps 2010 will bring an engagement, or a more solid commitment. Your goal for 2010 will be to follow through on the commitments you made to yourself and others in 2009, and, if 2009 wasn't entirely what you wanted it to be, put in the hard work in 2010 to make things right.
Cancer: those emotional waters run deep, strong, and mighty with you, and 2009 was no exception. With all the changes happening in the Universe, you were keenly aware of all the shifts occurring around you. Shifts in everything from people's moods, to the economic climate, to the political status of the world. You worried a lot more than normal, and felt frustrated more than usual. Deep breathes. Stress isn't good for your health, and isn't going to get you anywhere fast (other than a doctor's office). You have felt frustrated that things haven't gone your way, or that you didn't have the power to change things you didn't like, but patience, dear little Crab. After all, you always get what you want, one way or another!
Leo: there is a saying that says "if you are going through Hell, keep on going." You Leos out there are smiling (however bitterly or ironic as it may be) reading that line because you know where I am heading with this. Leos had a tough time in 2009. A lot of work, a lot of stress, and a lot of setbacks (emotional, physical, mental) really wrecked havoc with your sense of stability and security. Most of you were continually beaten with bad news, especially regarding your loved one. Many of you broke up with your SO, or nearly got there, and felt frustrated with your love lives. Your finances were tight, and you just felt very overwhelmed by things. But you are a fighter, and you will persevere. You are great at making yourself #1, so go ahead and do just that in 2010 and see what great results you may reap.
Virgo: it's not a hidden secret that Virgos are complex and hard to understand. Your mind is an intricate labyrinth of ideas and emotions that not even you know how to clearly navigate. One moment you feel one way, the next moment you feel entirely different. This year found you working hard (as usual), focusing less on family and friendships, and more on your romantic relationships. Most Virgos settled down this year, or wanted to settle down badly. They found themselves in new relationships or engagements, and if they didn't, they dated a lot of frogs to get their reward. 2009 was all about finding an SO for the majority of Virgos out there. And the good news is that it worked. Many Virgos have ended 2009 in a stable (or what they consider to be stable) relationship. Finally. Try not to over-analyze it and just ENJOY love in 2010. For the few Virgos out there that didn't find love in 2010, then it is probably because your work was your mistress. So, try to balance the scales in 2010 and shift gears towards love. You really don't do well when you are single or alone, despite what you may think.
Libra: 2009 was an interesting year when it came to family for most Libras out there. They felt unsatisfied with their current partner, and if single, they started wondering if they really even wanted a partner in their life. Libras did a lot of soul searching in general. They started asking themselves some serious questions: have a child, or not? get married, or not? stay single, or not? change jobs, or not? It's been interesting to say the least. I think the key issue is that Libras have felt the need for change, and they can't quite decide yet what they want that change to be. All they know is that there is a glimmer of discontent underneath that smile of theirs, and they are struggling to figure out where it comes from and how to change it. Use 2010 to the best of your advantage!
Scorpio: yours is a sign of transformation, and in 2009, you sure as hell lived up to your potential. Many of you focused on new beginnings and moved to a new town, traveled extensively, or decided to embark on a different sort of journey--the spiritual kind. Either way, whether it was mental, spiritual, or physical, all Scorpios took some sort of journey this year to figure out their lives and what would make them happier. And many of you are slowly but surely getting there. You aren't quite fulfilled yet, you still have some kinks to work through, but like the tortoise in the fairy tale...slow and steady wins the race.
Sagittarius: most Sag's had a lot of things going on for them this year. The majority went through a potent break-up in the first half of the year, and then found themselves in a new one by the 2nd half. This new relationship has brought them more happiness than they could have dreamed, but not necessarily the type they ever thought of having. You are in what is considered to be an unconventional relationship at this point in your life, but it is working for you for now. The fact is, the majority of you Sag's out there are evenly split down the middle as to whether your work, or your personal life, need to be #1. Both need some significant work to be done, but you just can't decide which should come first. You are all pretty much ready to quit your job and move on to the next best thing, and you should start putting your feelers out there. You aren't being challenged anymore, you are just feeling abused and annoyed by your coworkers or staff. And quite frankly, you are bored and tired and frustrated with everything. You feel ready for your next adventure...but where to? 2010 will give you 365 new calendar days to plan it.
Next Up: A Healthy Point of View
Monday, November 23, 2009
Buy a Shooting Star and Put It In Your Stocking.
And so, the countdown begins. While your immediate thoughts may be on your Thanksgiving plans or calorie counts, the truth is that you probably are more concerned about the holidays and what gifts to give your loved ones IN THIS ECONOMY.
It's true, we have to be a little bit more creative this year. Santa doesn't care if you have been naughty or nice...Santa is broke!
While the best gifts are those that come from the heart, or with a little more thought, they don't necessarily have to be store bought (I sound like a Christmas jingle). So, in an effort to DE-stress some of you (I am looking at YOU, Sagittarius), I thought it would be beneficial to give you my little stocking stuffer of a gift with what has now become the annual Christmas giving guide for your favorite signs. But, unlike previous years, I will try my best to come up with a comprehensive holiday shopping stimulus plan that won't bankrupt you, or your financial system, for the next few years to come.
She's making a list, and checking it twice...
Capricorn (Dec 22 - Jan 19): Our poor little Cap's have worked really hard this year and re-arranged a lot of their priorities. While their work schedule probably became a lot more flexible (some Cap's quit their job, or went part time, or reduced their hours in an effort to avoid breakdown, divorce, or being fired), their stress levels haven't been so healthy. Cook your Cap a gourmet dinner, light some candles, and get some hot oil massage out for that after dinner treat. Splurge option: buy them a great pair of shoes to wear for this dinner, or treat them to a full one-hour professional spa massage beforehand.
Aquarius (Jan 20 - Feb 18): Lots and lots of work hours have kept this sign on the move this year, but let's be honest, you've probably never seen your Aquarian so happy! This was their year (Jupiter, the planet of good luck and fortune, was in their sign for all of 2009), so they called the shots and really focused on making this year all about them and what makes them happy. Why not celebrate THEM and throw them a holiday cocktail party at your home, with their favorite music and drinks/food on tap, so they can relax for a few hours and REALLY enjoy the spirit of the season? Splurge option: buy them a great piece of jewelry to wear for their party, or, if your Aquarius is a man, buy him a great sweater or bottle of cologne. Anything to make them feel even sexier and more adored by their crowd.
Pisces (Feb 19 - March 20): It's not been a bad year for your Pisces. They had a few bumps here and there, but overall, they are ending 2009 on a positive note (perhaps they are sensing that 2010 will be their year as Jupiter will be transiting from Aquarius to Pisces). Your Pisces is probably getting into a holiday mode (they love the whole joyful season thing) and looking forward to decorating the house with you. Help them out by planning out a day (or weekend) of decorating, put on some holiday music, open a bottle of wine, and get into the spirit with them. Bonus points if you actually get the decorations out of storage and don't get them involved in the details of getting everything together. Splurge option: buy them tickets to their favorite winter sports game, or theater/arts production (The Nutcracker?), so that AFTER the decorating, they can sit back, relax, and enjoy.
Aries (March 21 - April 19): This fire sign has certainly been on the war path this year. Stress, stress, and more stress. They need to DE-compress. Work has weighed heavily on this sign's mind this year, and they are tired of dealing with home issues on top of it. A great way to help your Aries out is cleaning up the house for them and doing other basic errands (laundry, grocery shopping, dry-cleaning, car-tuning, etc) so that they can take some more time for themselves at the end of the day to watch their favorite TV show, go to the gym, or have fabulous sex...with YOU! Splurge option: hire a maid/cleaning service for 1-2 times a month for the next couple of months for your Aries so that they can look forward to a few months of being treated like the royalty that they know they are! If your Aries is particular about the way their house is cleaned, you can never fail by buying your Aries a gift card to their favorite designer store...surely, they have their eye on something that they want.
Taurus (April 20 - May 21): Lots of good changes came around the 2nd half of this year for most Taurus people out there. While the first half of 2009 was touch-and-go, the second half proved to be delightful. Let them hold onto their good mood by continuing to shower them with affection, love, and sex (that's all they really want anyways), and show them how important they are to you. Compile a photo album of their year, and insert poems or love notes throughout the album. They'll love the sentimentality, and the emotional journey of looking at what 2009 brought them. Bonus points if you can sing or write them a song, too! Splurge option: Taurus loves to enjoy the finer things in life, so buy them a membership to a monthly wine club that delivers a few bottles of wine to their doorstep each month for the next 3 months. That way, they don't have to leave their bedroom during the cold winter months (lucky you), and can have the party in their own cozy home.
Gemini (May 22 - June 21): AGITA! Lots and lots of things are on this Gem's mind: move or don't move? quit or don't quit? love or hate? stay or go? up or down? There's more mental exercising going on in this sign's mind than there is in the neighborhood gym (zing!). Take your Gemini on a road trip somewhere (countryside, preferably, as there won't be a lot of nervous city energy) to get them away from the daily hustle and bustle of life. Ideal spots would include the beach, mountains, or even a vineyard. Even if it is a day trip, your Gem will love the change of scenery. Find a spot to share a picnic (bring some wine, cheese, fruit, and cured meats, and this sign will be set!) and enjoy the day together. Splurge option: take your Gemini to another country or state for a whole weekend and treat them to new sites, restaurants, museums, and cultures. Nothing cures a Gemini like travel!
Cancer (June 22 - July 21): worrrrry, why do you make yourself worrrry? Cancer's are a little sensitive and down right now. They just aren't feeling the love or light, but they aren't downright depressed, either. They just need a little hope that every little thing is gonna be alright. A night in with a bunch of their favorite movies will make them incredibly happy, especially if you clean up the living room and light some of their favorite candles, pop in their favorite dessert in the oven, and pour them a really nice (aka special) glass of wine (or whatever they prefer to drink, even if it is a shot of cold milk). Give them a warm blanket to cuddle into, join them on the sofa, and start your movie marathon together (with a box of tissues close by). Splurge option: get them a yearly subscription to Netflix so that they can have a movie marathon whenever they want, and it wouldn't hurt to get them a subscription to their favorite magazine, either. If you really want to gain points, give them a gift card to get a spa massage or reflexology treatment to calm their pretty little heads.
Leo (July 22 - Aug 23): damn, it's been a busy year! Everything all around our dear Leo's has been full of stress, complications, or ongoing issues. They haven't had much time to sit back and relax. Your king/queen needs to feel pampered again. Take them on a drive to check out the holiday decorations people have out, go ice skating with them, and help them put up decorations on their own front yard. This sign loves the spirit of the season, and wants everything to look special and just right. By BEING there, you show them how much you care. Give them all the hugs and kisses they ask for...they need it right now. Splurge option: let's not kid ourselves, this sign loves a little money thrown their way. If you can, splurge and buy them a really nice pair of earrings, or a classic ring or bracelet...something that sparkles more than the Christmas lights in Macy's. Since their car is probably dirty as hell, get it detailed and washed, too. It will make for a more pleasant holiday joy ride around town.
Virgo (Aug 24 - Sept 22): for a sign that enjoys their home, and their bedtime, 2009 hasn't been so kind to Virgo in that respect. Lots of work hours and family/social plans have kept this sign on the move (with early AM wake-up calls!). Let your Virgo chill for a weekend and run the errands yourself. While they sleep in, you can make sure all the groceries, laundry, and dry-cleaning have been done. Bonus points if you water the plants and cook dinner, too. Just let them relax and read, or watch TV. They need a moment to re-group. If you buy them their favorite TV show/series, they will be eternally grateful. Splurge option: take them away for the weekend to the beach or mountains so that they can be around nature and NOT hear noise. Walks on the beach will be extremely gratifying. So would a cute bed & breakfast. Since this sign is always obsessed with their weight, buying them a membership to the gym would be awesome (provided that you make sure that they understand that you aren't doing it because you think they are fat, but rather, because you know it makes them happy to go and you don't want them to spend their money on that when they could invest it or save it in their bank account).
Libra (Sept 23 - Oct 22): this is an exciting time for a Libra -- all the holiday events and plans they will have! Oh my! They are so excited for all the festivities and get togethers, that they can barely speak coherently. Go with them to all their parties and work the room with them, Libra's love to socialize and flirt (as you already know) and will enjoy not having to worry about you moping around. Buy them some pretty decorations to put around the house so that they have something new to admire in the home. Splurge option: take them out shopping so they can buy a few new holiday outfits to host or attend parties with. Pay for their next haircut appointment, too. They'll appreciate how much you care about their beautiful head. Speaking of heads, it wouldn't hurt to buy them a facial, either. Their skin should glow as much as their personalities. If they don't already own a digital camera, buy them one. They will love taking it with them to parties to remember the memories.
Scorpio (Oct 23 - Nov 21): Fall is the favorite season for most Scorpios -- the air is crisp, the colors of the trees are stunning shades of orange, brown, and burnt red (their favorite colors), and its time for monsters and goblins to come out! Alas, now it is cold outside and winter is sinking in. No bother, though. Your Scorpio enjoys the home life, and won't mind this weather if it gives them a chance to work on plans for their new home decorations/remodeling, or for working on a pet project of theirs (writing a novel, researching for a thesis, composing music, drawing/painting). Buy them a journal, an art canvas and paint supplies, or a feng shui book so that they can work on a creative endeavor while it is cold and nasty out. Giving them some silence is literally golden. Splurge option: pay for them to go take a course in something they are interested in (like a language class, art course, or cinematography series) so that they can flex their mind outside of their standard work environment. If venturing out into the cold isn't their cup of tea, sign them up for a book club where they can order books to be delivered to their home (and you pick up the tab for the next couple of months!).
Sagittarius (Nov 22 - Dec 21): Sag's could/should be happier -- it is their birthday month, after all! Some Sag's get the short end of the stick, however, with their birthday's being wrapped up with the holidays (HELLO, they get AT LEAST 2 gifts!). Make sure you remind them how special they are, and don't turn their birthday into a holiday event. Go all out. Take them to their favorite local bar to watch whatever sports game they love on TV, get them tickets to the new museum exhibit that they want to go to, buy them tickets to go watch their favorite game IN PERSON, or tickets to the opera or theater. Splurge option: do all of the aforementioned ideas (after all, it IS their birthday, too!), and plan a trip in the winter to go skiing or doing some sort of adventure-related sport that they can enjoy. They want to get away and do something FUN! Since our Sag's love their booze, go ahead and buy them the most expensive wine or liquor bottle you can find and put a bow on it. They'll appreciate that gift for at least a few nights. And, by the way, their favorite show or sport is best watched on a super sexy and large flat screen TV. Hint, hint.
Next Up: The Planetary Wrap-Up: 2009 Annual Review
It's true, we have to be a little bit more creative this year. Santa doesn't care if you have been naughty or nice...Santa is broke!
While the best gifts are those that come from the heart, or with a little more thought, they don't necessarily have to be store bought (I sound like a Christmas jingle). So, in an effort to DE-stress some of you (I am looking at YOU, Sagittarius), I thought it would be beneficial to give you my little stocking stuffer of a gift with what has now become the annual Christmas giving guide for your favorite signs. But, unlike previous years, I will try my best to come up with a comprehensive holiday shopping stimulus plan that won't bankrupt you, or your financial system, for the next few years to come.
She's making a list, and checking it twice...
Capricorn (Dec 22 - Jan 19): Our poor little Cap's have worked really hard this year and re-arranged a lot of their priorities. While their work schedule probably became a lot more flexible (some Cap's quit their job, or went part time, or reduced their hours in an effort to avoid breakdown, divorce, or being fired), their stress levels haven't been so healthy. Cook your Cap a gourmet dinner, light some candles, and get some hot oil massage out for that after dinner treat. Splurge option: buy them a great pair of shoes to wear for this dinner, or treat them to a full one-hour professional spa massage beforehand.
Aquarius (Jan 20 - Feb 18): Lots and lots of work hours have kept this sign on the move this year, but let's be honest, you've probably never seen your Aquarian so happy! This was their year (Jupiter, the planet of good luck and fortune, was in their sign for all of 2009), so they called the shots and really focused on making this year all about them and what makes them happy. Why not celebrate THEM and throw them a holiday cocktail party at your home, with their favorite music and drinks/food on tap, so they can relax for a few hours and REALLY enjoy the spirit of the season? Splurge option: buy them a great piece of jewelry to wear for their party, or, if your Aquarius is a man, buy him a great sweater or bottle of cologne. Anything to make them feel even sexier and more adored by their crowd.
Pisces (Feb 19 - March 20): It's not been a bad year for your Pisces. They had a few bumps here and there, but overall, they are ending 2009 on a positive note (perhaps they are sensing that 2010 will be their year as Jupiter will be transiting from Aquarius to Pisces). Your Pisces is probably getting into a holiday mode (they love the whole joyful season thing) and looking forward to decorating the house with you. Help them out by planning out a day (or weekend) of decorating, put on some holiday music, open a bottle of wine, and get into the spirit with them. Bonus points if you actually get the decorations out of storage and don't get them involved in the details of getting everything together. Splurge option: buy them tickets to their favorite winter sports game, or theater/arts production (The Nutcracker?), so that AFTER the decorating, they can sit back, relax, and enjoy.
Aries (March 21 - April 19): This fire sign has certainly been on the war path this year. Stress, stress, and more stress. They need to DE-compress. Work has weighed heavily on this sign's mind this year, and they are tired of dealing with home issues on top of it. A great way to help your Aries out is cleaning up the house for them and doing other basic errands (laundry, grocery shopping, dry-cleaning, car-tuning, etc) so that they can take some more time for themselves at the end of the day to watch their favorite TV show, go to the gym, or have fabulous sex...with YOU! Splurge option: hire a maid/cleaning service for 1-2 times a month for the next couple of months for your Aries so that they can look forward to a few months of being treated like the royalty that they know they are! If your Aries is particular about the way their house is cleaned, you can never fail by buying your Aries a gift card to their favorite designer store...surely, they have their eye on something that they want.
Taurus (April 20 - May 21): Lots of good changes came around the 2nd half of this year for most Taurus people out there. While the first half of 2009 was touch-and-go, the second half proved to be delightful. Let them hold onto their good mood by continuing to shower them with affection, love, and sex (that's all they really want anyways), and show them how important they are to you. Compile a photo album of their year, and insert poems or love notes throughout the album. They'll love the sentimentality, and the emotional journey of looking at what 2009 brought them. Bonus points if you can sing or write them a song, too! Splurge option: Taurus loves to enjoy the finer things in life, so buy them a membership to a monthly wine club that delivers a few bottles of wine to their doorstep each month for the next 3 months. That way, they don't have to leave their bedroom during the cold winter months (lucky you), and can have the party in their own cozy home.
Gemini (May 22 - June 21): AGITA! Lots and lots of things are on this Gem's mind: move or don't move? quit or don't quit? love or hate? stay or go? up or down? There's more mental exercising going on in this sign's mind than there is in the neighborhood gym (zing!). Take your Gemini on a road trip somewhere (countryside, preferably, as there won't be a lot of nervous city energy) to get them away from the daily hustle and bustle of life. Ideal spots would include the beach, mountains, or even a vineyard. Even if it is a day trip, your Gem will love the change of scenery. Find a spot to share a picnic (bring some wine, cheese, fruit, and cured meats, and this sign will be set!) and enjoy the day together. Splurge option: take your Gemini to another country or state for a whole weekend and treat them to new sites, restaurants, museums, and cultures. Nothing cures a Gemini like travel!
Cancer (June 22 - July 21): worrrrry, why do you make yourself worrrry? Cancer's are a little sensitive and down right now. They just aren't feeling the love or light, but they aren't downright depressed, either. They just need a little hope that every little thing is gonna be alright. A night in with a bunch of their favorite movies will make them incredibly happy, especially if you clean up the living room and light some of their favorite candles, pop in their favorite dessert in the oven, and pour them a really nice (aka special) glass of wine (or whatever they prefer to drink, even if it is a shot of cold milk). Give them a warm blanket to cuddle into, join them on the sofa, and start your movie marathon together (with a box of tissues close by). Splurge option: get them a yearly subscription to Netflix so that they can have a movie marathon whenever they want, and it wouldn't hurt to get them a subscription to their favorite magazine, either. If you really want to gain points, give them a gift card to get a spa massage or reflexology treatment to calm their pretty little heads.
Leo (July 22 - Aug 23): damn, it's been a busy year! Everything all around our dear Leo's has been full of stress, complications, or ongoing issues. They haven't had much time to sit back and relax. Your king/queen needs to feel pampered again. Take them on a drive to check out the holiday decorations people have out, go ice skating with them, and help them put up decorations on their own front yard. This sign loves the spirit of the season, and wants everything to look special and just right. By BEING there, you show them how much you care. Give them all the hugs and kisses they ask for...they need it right now. Splurge option: let's not kid ourselves, this sign loves a little money thrown their way. If you can, splurge and buy them a really nice pair of earrings, or a classic ring or bracelet...something that sparkles more than the Christmas lights in Macy's. Since their car is probably dirty as hell, get it detailed and washed, too. It will make for a more pleasant holiday joy ride around town.
Virgo (Aug 24 - Sept 22): for a sign that enjoys their home, and their bedtime, 2009 hasn't been so kind to Virgo in that respect. Lots of work hours and family/social plans have kept this sign on the move (with early AM wake-up calls!). Let your Virgo chill for a weekend and run the errands yourself. While they sleep in, you can make sure all the groceries, laundry, and dry-cleaning have been done. Bonus points if you water the plants and cook dinner, too. Just let them relax and read, or watch TV. They need a moment to re-group. If you buy them their favorite TV show/series, they will be eternally grateful. Splurge option: take them away for the weekend to the beach or mountains so that they can be around nature and NOT hear noise. Walks on the beach will be extremely gratifying. So would a cute bed & breakfast. Since this sign is always obsessed with their weight, buying them a membership to the gym would be awesome (provided that you make sure that they understand that you aren't doing it because you think they are fat, but rather, because you know it makes them happy to go and you don't want them to spend their money on that when they could invest it or save it in their bank account).
Libra (Sept 23 - Oct 22): this is an exciting time for a Libra -- all the holiday events and plans they will have! Oh my! They are so excited for all the festivities and get togethers, that they can barely speak coherently. Go with them to all their parties and work the room with them, Libra's love to socialize and flirt (as you already know) and will enjoy not having to worry about you moping around. Buy them some pretty decorations to put around the house so that they have something new to admire in the home. Splurge option: take them out shopping so they can buy a few new holiday outfits to host or attend parties with. Pay for their next haircut appointment, too. They'll appreciate how much you care about their beautiful head. Speaking of heads, it wouldn't hurt to buy them a facial, either. Their skin should glow as much as their personalities. If they don't already own a digital camera, buy them one. They will love taking it with them to parties to remember the memories.
Scorpio (Oct 23 - Nov 21): Fall is the favorite season for most Scorpios -- the air is crisp, the colors of the trees are stunning shades of orange, brown, and burnt red (their favorite colors), and its time for monsters and goblins to come out! Alas, now it is cold outside and winter is sinking in. No bother, though. Your Scorpio enjoys the home life, and won't mind this weather if it gives them a chance to work on plans for their new home decorations/remodeling, or for working on a pet project of theirs (writing a novel, researching for a thesis, composing music, drawing/painting). Buy them a journal, an art canvas and paint supplies, or a feng shui book so that they can work on a creative endeavor while it is cold and nasty out. Giving them some silence is literally golden. Splurge option: pay for them to go take a course in something they are interested in (like a language class, art course, or cinematography series) so that they can flex their mind outside of their standard work environment. If venturing out into the cold isn't their cup of tea, sign them up for a book club where they can order books to be delivered to their home (and you pick up the tab for the next couple of months!).
Sagittarius (Nov 22 - Dec 21): Sag's could/should be happier -- it is their birthday month, after all! Some Sag's get the short end of the stick, however, with their birthday's being wrapped up with the holidays (HELLO, they get AT LEAST 2 gifts!). Make sure you remind them how special they are, and don't turn their birthday into a holiday event. Go all out. Take them to their favorite local bar to watch whatever sports game they love on TV, get them tickets to the new museum exhibit that they want to go to, buy them tickets to go watch their favorite game IN PERSON, or tickets to the opera or theater. Splurge option: do all of the aforementioned ideas (after all, it IS their birthday, too!), and plan a trip in the winter to go skiing or doing some sort of adventure-related sport that they can enjoy. They want to get away and do something FUN! Since our Sag's love their booze, go ahead and buy them the most expensive wine or liquor bottle you can find and put a bow on it. They'll appreciate that gift for at least a few nights. And, by the way, their favorite show or sport is best watched on a super sexy and large flat screen TV. Hint, hint.
Next Up: The Planetary Wrap-Up: 2009 Annual Review
Friday, October 23, 2009
A Fixed Loan and a Mutable Rate, All Brought to You by Cardinal Mortgage
IN THIS ECONOMY, it never hurts to think about the housing market when discussing astrology (or vice versa).
But I am not really well versed in the mortgage industry to discuss rates and loans and price indices, so no worries that I am going rogue on you and switching up the topic of this blog. What I am well versed in is to discuss yet another fascinating facet of astrology -- your Quality.
In the new 4-1-1, I mention your "Quality", and list one of three: Cardinal, Fixed, or Mutable. But what does it MEAN?
You probably think that your Quality is no big deal, because let's be honest, how many major magazines or horoscope sections even mention it? Truth be told, your Quality is pretty darn important -- it is second only to your Element (Water, Earth, Air, or Fire).
A Sign's Quality defines its nature, its attitudes in life, and the way it approaches goals, projects, or long term objectives. Signs that are of the same Quality do not blend well together, ironically because they are too similar to one another. Tension and unease surfaces when two fixed qualities, or two mutable qualities meet, for example. Signs that are 90 degrees apart or opposite each other -- 180 degrees, also known as Signs in Polarity -- have the same Quality. Those in polarity complement each other, even though tension sometimes exists between them. But that can be a topic for another post on another day!
So, let's get right to it. The three Qualities that exist are: Cardinal, Fixed, and Mutable.
The Cardinal Signs are Capricorn, Aries, Cancer, and Libra. If you are a Cardinal Sign, you typically display initiative, strength, and motivation, and are always in action/"GO" mode. Cardinals are great with big concepts, entrepreneurial ideas, and at getting the ball rolling. Where they fail is in the details, completing a project, or following up on plans. Basically, they are a big bang, and then struggle not to go bust. In your astrological chart, the Cardinal Houses are the First, Fourth, Seventh, and Tenth. If your chart has many planets in any/each of those Houses, then you would be classified as someone with a predominant Cardinal energy (even if your Sun Sign isn't one of the Cardinal Signs). Astrology is complicated and an equal-opportunist like that -- you always get another chance to redeem yourself!
The Fixed Signs are Aquarius, Taurus, Leo, and Scorpio. Unlike the Cardinal Signs who like to get a project started and think up the "big ideas", the Fixed Signs are great at the second part of the project where the Cardinals often fail -- the execution and completion. Fixed Signs are determined, reliable, persistent, and stable. While they can see a project through to completion, they have to be wary about being inflexible and stubborn in how they get it accomplished. They can ride their team members, friends, or family quite hard when things aren't done their way. The Fixed Houses are in the Second, Fifth, Eighth, and Eleventh in your chart. As mentioned above in the Cardinal Sign section, you can be heavily influenced by the energy of Fixed Signs if you have many planets in those Houses.
Last, but certainly not least, are the Mutable Signs. By process of elimination, you can probably guess which they are: Pisces, Gemini, Virgo, and Sagittarius. These four Signs are the flexible members of the Zodiac -- they are able to rearrange, reprioritize, and renew the energy of any project or goal. Change and adaptability define them, and can be super flexible and versatile when dealing with any assignment. Change isn't necessarily a bad thing for them. Their downfall, unlike those of the Cardinal Signs or Fixed Signs, are that they aren't necessarily consistent in their planning or organization. The Mutable Houses are Third, Sixth, Ninth, and Twelfth in your chart.
It's very clear to see how advantageous it would be to have a team that is equally distributed amongst the 3 Qualities. If you have a Cardinal Sign to come up with a concept and get the ball rolling, a Fixed Sign to follow through on the details and get them implemented and completed, and a Mutable Sign to happily pitch in where needed and adapt to change or crises (and more often than not, a Mutable is what keeps the peace amongst the strong and stubborn wills of the Cardinal and Fixed Signs), then there really wouldn't ever be such a thing as failure!
Next Up: Buy a Shooting Star and Put It In Your Stocking.
But I am not really well versed in the mortgage industry to discuss rates and loans and price indices, so no worries that I am going rogue on you and switching up the topic of this blog. What I am well versed in is to discuss yet another fascinating facet of astrology -- your Quality.
In the new 4-1-1, I mention your "Quality", and list one of three: Cardinal, Fixed, or Mutable. But what does it MEAN?
You probably think that your Quality is no big deal, because let's be honest, how many major magazines or horoscope sections even mention it? Truth be told, your Quality is pretty darn important -- it is second only to your Element (Water, Earth, Air, or Fire).
A Sign's Quality defines its nature, its attitudes in life, and the way it approaches goals, projects, or long term objectives. Signs that are of the same Quality do not blend well together, ironically because they are too similar to one another. Tension and unease surfaces when two fixed qualities, or two mutable qualities meet, for example. Signs that are 90 degrees apart or opposite each other -- 180 degrees, also known as Signs in Polarity -- have the same Quality. Those in polarity complement each other, even though tension sometimes exists between them. But that can be a topic for another post on another day!
So, let's get right to it. The three Qualities that exist are: Cardinal, Fixed, and Mutable.
The Cardinal Signs are Capricorn, Aries, Cancer, and Libra. If you are a Cardinal Sign, you typically display initiative, strength, and motivation, and are always in action/"GO" mode. Cardinals are great with big concepts, entrepreneurial ideas, and at getting the ball rolling. Where they fail is in the details, completing a project, or following up on plans. Basically, they are a big bang, and then struggle not to go bust. In your astrological chart, the Cardinal Houses are the First, Fourth, Seventh, and Tenth. If your chart has many planets in any/each of those Houses, then you would be classified as someone with a predominant Cardinal energy (even if your Sun Sign isn't one of the Cardinal Signs). Astrology is complicated and an equal-opportunist like that -- you always get another chance to redeem yourself!
The Fixed Signs are Aquarius, Taurus, Leo, and Scorpio. Unlike the Cardinal Signs who like to get a project started and think up the "big ideas", the Fixed Signs are great at the second part of the project where the Cardinals often fail -- the execution and completion. Fixed Signs are determined, reliable, persistent, and stable. While they can see a project through to completion, they have to be wary about being inflexible and stubborn in how they get it accomplished. They can ride their team members, friends, or family quite hard when things aren't done their way. The Fixed Houses are in the Second, Fifth, Eighth, and Eleventh in your chart. As mentioned above in the Cardinal Sign section, you can be heavily influenced by the energy of Fixed Signs if you have many planets in those Houses.
Last, but certainly not least, are the Mutable Signs. By process of elimination, you can probably guess which they are: Pisces, Gemini, Virgo, and Sagittarius. These four Signs are the flexible members of the Zodiac -- they are able to rearrange, reprioritize, and renew the energy of any project or goal. Change and adaptability define them, and can be super flexible and versatile when dealing with any assignment. Change isn't necessarily a bad thing for them. Their downfall, unlike those of the Cardinal Signs or Fixed Signs, are that they aren't necessarily consistent in their planning or organization. The Mutable Houses are Third, Sixth, Ninth, and Twelfth in your chart.
It's very clear to see how advantageous it would be to have a team that is equally distributed amongst the 3 Qualities. If you have a Cardinal Sign to come up with a concept and get the ball rolling, a Fixed Sign to follow through on the details and get them implemented and completed, and a Mutable Sign to happily pitch in where needed and adapt to change or crises (and more often than not, a Mutable is what keeps the peace amongst the strong and stubborn wills of the Cardinal and Fixed Signs), then there really wouldn't ever be such a thing as failure!
Next Up: Buy a Shooting Star and Put It In Your Stocking.
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